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by Marianne Iverson
Your kids are almost gone, or already gone, and nobody told you it would feel like this. Create Your Best Empty Nest is where women figure out who they are now and what comes next. Certified life coach Marianne Iverson helps you move from lost and uncertain to clear, grounded, and genuinely excited about your next chapter.
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- 3 days ago22 min
Empty Nest? How to Find Your Purpose When You Don't Know What You Want: A in the CREATE Method-
🌿 Don't know what you want anymore? Book a free Next Chapter Jumpstart Call and let's find the one small shift that lights your spark again: https://marianneiverson.com/callSomebody asks, "So what are you going to do now?" and your mind goes blank. You know your son's Chick-fil-A order and your husband's favorite cereal, but your own wants? Crickets. You haven't lost your passion. You've just been too busy making everyone else's life go.In this episode, I take you to the top of Cassidy Arch in Capitol Reef, where a friend looked over a 140-foot free-fall rappel and said, "Please encourage me all the way down. I'm so scared." I was on belay at the bottom cheering her on, and I noticed something. I came alive helping her come alive. That was a clue, and your spark leaves clues too. This is the A in the CREATE Method, Awaken, the clearest way to go from "my best years are behind me" to "it's my turn now."In this episode, you'll hear:• Why wanting is a muscle, and how to get yours back in shape after 20+ years of putting everyone else first• How writing down one forgotten want led me to the pickleball league I'm playing in right now• The breadcrumb questions that show you what you're naturally good at• What a wildfire above my house taught me about sparks that never really go out• How to notice when you feel most alive, and who you light up• Why it's not too late to start something new in midlife, even as a beginnerThis one is for you if you're a woman over 45, your kids are leaving or already gone, and the empty nest transition has you feeling a little lost about who you are now.🌿 READY TO STOP CIRCLING AND ACTUALLY START?If the kids have left and you're sitting with that quiet "now what," you've probably thought about this call more than once already.On a free Next Chapter Jumpstart Call, we'll find the one place the empty nest has you feeling stuck, and you'll walk away with one small shift you can start today. Not someday. Today.You don't need to have it figured out first. That's what the call is for.👉 https://marianneiverson.com/call
- 1 weeks ago21 min
How to Make Friends as an Empty Nester: (E in the CREATE method)
🌿 Missing your people since the kids left? The next step is a free Next Chapter Jumpstart Call, where we find what's keeping you stuck and you leave with one small shift to start today: https://marianneiverson.com/callYour house got quiet. Your phone got quieter. And somewhere between the last graduation and your first empty Friday night, you realized you're not sure who you'd call just to talk.Empty nest loneliness isn't only about missing your kids. It's about losing the whole community they built around you: the sideline friends, the group chat, the parents you saw every week for years. Nobody warns you about that part of the empty nest transition.In Episode 42, I take you to a Friday night at the high school football game, where I went to cheer on young women from my church and kept getting asked, "Do you still have kids in high school?" It was awkward, and it showed me something every empty nester needs to hear: you are not bad at making friends. You've just never had to do it on purpose. Your kids gave you proximity, and proximity did the work.This is E, Engage, the third letter of the CREATE Method, the clearest way to go from "my best years are behind me" to "it's my turn now."In this episode, you'll hear:- Why making friends after the kids leave home feels so hard, and why it isn't a you problem- The moving walkway that explains why your social life stalled the day the schedule ended- Strategy 1: How to let the ache be clean, so empty nest sadness doesn't turn into "what's wrong with me?"- Strategy 2: How to build a new weekly rhythm on purpose, and how to borrow a reason to show up- Strategy 3: The small first move that works, including the exact text to send an old friend this week- Why "just put yourself out there" is the worst advice for midlife friendships- The belief behind Engage: love doesn't require you to disappear, and connection doesn't require you to performThis one is for you if you're a woman in your 40s or 50s, your kids are leaving home or already gone, and you're craving friendship, community, and a life that feels like yours again.🌿 READY TO STOP CIRCLING AND ACTUALLY START?If the kids have left and you're sitting with that quiet "now what," you've probably thought about this call more than once already.On a free Next Chapter Jumpstart Call, we'll find the one place the empty nest has you feeling stuck, and you'll walk away with one small shift you can start today. Not someday. Today.You don't need to have it figured out first. That's what the call is for.👉 https://marianneiverson.com/call
- 2 weeks ago13 min
Who Am I Now That the Kids Are Grown? (Reclaim, Part 2 of the CREATE Method)
Who Am I Now That My Kids Are Grown? (Reclaim, Part 2 of the CREATE Method)You're standing in the same bleachers you've sat in for years, surrounded by people who still recognize your face but not your reason for being there anymore. If that quiet "who am I now" has been following you around lately, in the carpool line, at a game, in a suddenly empty kitchen, this episode is for you.This week on Create Your Best Empty Nest, Marianne shares the moment at a high school soccer game that cracked open everything she thought she knew about empty nest identity loss, and walks through Reclaim, the second letter of the CREATE Method, the framework helping women move from "my best years are behind me" to "it's my turn now."In this episode, you'll learn:Why being needed and being whole are not the same thing, and how to stop confusing the twoHow to recognize when wanting more for yourself isn't selfish, it's sacred directionWhy the end of a season (a team, a role, a business, a chapter of motherhood) is a hand off, not a failureHow the skills you built as a mom are leadership skills, and exactly how to start pointing them toward your own next chapterA simple, practical way to reclaim your identity after the kids leave home, one small shift at a timeIf you've been circling the question "who am I now that my kids are grown," this episode will help you find her again.🌿 READY TO STOP CIRCLING AND ACTUALLY START?If the kids have left and you're sitting with that quiet "now what," you've probably thought about this call more than once already.On a free Next Chapter Jumpstart Call, we'll find the one place the empty nest has you feeling stuck, and you'll walk away with one small shift you can start today. Not someday. Today.You don't need to have it figured out first. That's what the call is for.👉 marianneiverson.com/call
- 3 weeks ago18 min
The Truth About the Thoughts We Believe In the Empty Nest (C in the CREATE Method)
It's Christmas morning. Recipe books I'd spent months putting together are open on everyone's lap. Matching pajamas everywhere. Presents scattered across the floor. Everyone's talking over each other, laughing, and it's exactly the morning I'd hoped for. I'm also completely exhausted, the kind of tired that comes from carrying every detail of a holiday for weeks without anyone knowing it.A few nights later at dinner, I'm watching my grown kids laugh with each other at the same table, and nobody's looked my way in ten minutes. One thought hit me so fast I never even questioned it: "I'm just the one who planned this whole trip. Nobody needs me for anything else."If you've ever poured everything into a moment and then felt completely invisible right in the middle of it, this one's for you.This week I'm introducing the CREATE Method for the first time, starting with the letter that changes everything else: Clarity. If you're in that season of empty nest anxiety, identity loss after your kids leave home, or you've whispered "who am I now" to yourself in a quiet kitchen, I'm handing you the exact tool that helped me catch a painful thought before it ran my whole night.In this episode I cover:Why doing everything for my family, seamlessly, for years actually made my effort invisible, and what I do about it nowHow painful thoughts move in fast and convince you they're true before you've even noticed them arriveThe difference between gratitude and clarity, and why I was using gratitude as a lid instead of a lensThe simple two-column exercise I use (the facts vs. the story I told myself) to catch which thoughts are actually running my lifeWhy clarity has to come first before you can reclaim your identity, trust yourself again, or build anything new in this next chapterIf any part of that dinner felt familiar tonight, that's not a coincidence.🌿 READY TO STOP CIRCLING AND ACTUALLY START?If your kids have left and you're sitting with that quiet "now what," you've probably thought about this call more than once already. On a free Next Chapter Jumpstart Call, we'll find the one place the empty nest has you feeling stuck, and you'll walk away with one small shift you can start today. Not someday. Today.You don't need to have it figured out first. That's what the call is for.👉 Book your call: marianneiverson.com/call
- Oct 6, 202615 min
How to Get Unstuck
Wide awake at 2am asking "now what?" You're not alone, and you're not broken. If empty nest syndrome has you feeling stuck, lost, or like you don't recognize your own life anymore, this episode is for you.Everyone told you the empty nest would mean freedom. Free mornings, free time, finally free to do whatever you want. So why does it feel like the opposite? In this episode, certified life coach Marianne Iverson breaks down the four thoughts secretly keeping so many midlife women stuck instead of free, thoughts that feel like facts but aren't. Using real stories from her own empty nest journey, from a quiet drive home after college drop off to the silence of a phone that doesn't buzz anymore, Marianne shows you exactly why "who am I now" feels so disorienting, and exactly what finally getting free actually looks like.This episode covers:Why "my best years are behind me" is a thought, not a fact, and how to stop letting it run your next chapterThe real difference between not being needed anymore and not mattering anymoreWhere purpose actually comes from after motherhood (it was never handed to you in the first place)Why "who am I now?" isn't a question you're meant to figure out aloneHow to finally move from feeling stuck to feeling free, not just in your schedule, but in your identityIf any part of this episode felt like it was describing your own 2am thoughts, that's your sign. You don't have to figure this next chapter out by yourself.Join Marianne for the Get Unstuck Challenge, three days, live, together, completely free. Save your spot at marianneiverson.com/challenge
- Sep 29, 202615 min
Advice for Empty Nest Syndrome (That Actually Helps)
You've googled "is empty nest syndrome real" at 11pm, sitting outside her closed bedroom door, half hoping the answer was yes. Because if it's a diagnosis, at least there's a reason you feel this out of it.Here's the truth: empty nest syndrome isn't in any medical manual. It's not a malfunction, it's a normal, well-documented reaction to a massive life change, and that one distinction changes everything about how you talk to yourself in this season. In this episode, we're covering what's actually happening when the house goes quiet, how long the hardest part of an empty nest transition really lasts, and why so many women signing up for six classes still feel the same ache underneath a full calendar. You'll also hear what the research says about marriage and empty nest syndrome (it might surprise you), and why this hits moms differently than dads when it comes to identity after kids leave home.If you're in the thick of midlife reinvention and tired of "just stay busy" advice, this one's for you.In this episode:Why empty nest syndrome isn't a clinical diagnosis, and what that means for how you talk to yourself about itThe real timeline: how long empty nest grief actually lasts for most womenWhy a full calendar doesn't fix an empty nest ache (and what actually does)What the research says about marriage improving after kids leave homeWhy empty nest identity loss hits mothers harder than fathersOne small shift you can make tonight, starting with what's keeping you up at 2am🌿 READY TO STOP CIRCLING AND ACTUALLY START?If the kids have left and you're sitting with that quiet "now what," you've probably thought about this call more than once already.On a free Next Chapter Jumpstart Call, we'll find the one place the empty nest has you feeling stuck, and you'll walk away with one small shift you can start today. Not someday. Today.You don't need to have it figured out first. That's what the call is for.👉 marianneiverson.com/call
- Sep 22, 202616 min
Nobody Talks About How Lonely the Empty Nest Really Is
You dropped your kids off, drove home, and sat in a driveway that suddenly felt too quiet. Nobody warned you it would feel this lonely.If you're in the empty nest season (sometimes called empty nest syndrome, though it's really just plain old grief nobody named for you), you've probably felt it: the quiet car, the empty calendar, the "who do I even call right now?" This episode is built from real comments off one of my most-shared reels, the ones that had hundreds of women saying "this is exactly it, I've just never heard anyone say it out loud." We're talking honestly about empty nest loneliness: why it hits so much harder than anyone tells you, why it can take years to adjust if you're doing it alone, and how to find yourself again after decades of putting everyone else first.In this episode, you'll hear:Why so many women feel blindsided by how lonely this season of life actually isThe real comments behind one of my most-shared reels about life after kids leave homeWhy adjusting to an empty nest can take years, and how the right support shortens thatHow to find yourself again after spending decades putting everyone else's needs firstWhy leaning on your kids to fill the loneliness is a trap, and what to build insteadOne small step you can take today to feel less alone in this season🌿 READY TO STOP CIRCLING AND ACTUALLY START?If the kids have left and you're sitting with that quiet "now what," you've probably thought about this call more than once already.On a free Next Chapter Jumpstart Call, we'll find the one place the empty nest has you feeling stuck, and you'll walk away with one small shift you can start today. Not someday. Today.You don't need to have it figured out first. That's what the call is for.👉 marianneiverson.com/call
- Sep 15, 202615 min
No...Is a Complete Sentence. (A Recovering People Pleaser's Guide)
You just said no to something and then spent the next four sentences apologizing for it. If that sounds familiar, you're not alone, and it's not a personality flaw. It's people pleasing, and it's one of the sneakiest habits keeping women in the empty nest and midlife stuck in a version of themselves they're ready to outgrow.In this episode of Create Your Best Empty Nest, Marianne Iverson breaks down why a plain "no" feels like it needs a resume of reasons attached to it, and what actually happens when you drop the performance. Spoiler: you don't lose the people who matter. You only lose the exhausting act of managing everyone's feelings about your answer.This episode covers:The hidden fear underneath every over-explained "no"The exact moment in your body where you talk yourself out of your own answerWhy "no, thank you" is a full sentence, even when you're tempted to defend itWhat you actually lose when you stop performing for people (it's not what you think)Why this season of life, after the kids leave, is the perfect practice ground for a voice you haven't used in yearsIf you've spent years being the good wife, the good mom, the good friend who always has a reason ready, this is your permission slip to stop earning your own answers.🌿 READY TO STOP CIRCLING AND ACTUALLY START?If the kids have left and you're sitting with that quiet "now what," you've probably thought about this call more than once already.On a free Next Chapter Jumpstart Call, we'll find the one place the empty nest has you feeling stuck, and you'll walk away with one small shift you can start today. Not someday. Today.You don't need to have it figured out first. That's what the call is for.👉 marianneiverson.com/call
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