other people’s opinions of you is none of your business

It’s in our human nature to care about what people think about us, but if that person doesn’t even have your number to even call you up and tell you that opinion of you - the opinion itself is a reflection of themselves not you. We waste so much time and energy caring about what people say about us, but you can’t progress in life if that time is spent thinking of other peoples opinions. I have the mentality ‘if they haven’t said it to my face, they haven’t said it all’ - for peace of mind, neglect and ignore the care for others opinions as it’s none of your business. Bad things or negative opinions said about you is THEIR time wasted, don’t reciprocate this time lost and only care about the opinions of those closest to you - yourself, your family and your best friend. ILYSM.