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by Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant
Welcome to The Kink Consultant podcast, where we’re turning up the heat on all things kink in dating, relationships, and pop culture! Join Amanda each week as she dishes out the juiciest stories, expert advice, and shares a sneak peek behind the bedroom door with some amazing guests. Whether you're just a little kink-curious, ready to spice things up, or a seasoned pro, there's something here for you! Get ready to explore the wild world of intimacy, kink, and those oh-so-intriguing D/s dynamics.
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- 2 days ago53 min
Ep 52 - When Pain Meets Pleasure: Behind the Scenes at Ripped Digital with Lucas & Hazel
What happens when your relationship is built on trust, power exchange, and pushing limits together?Book A Consult Call with Amanda http://www.amandadames.com/CoachingJoin KOKO Club Today | Our Online Kink Community https://www.amandadames.com/offers/6uC24tgZIn this episode, I sit down with Lucas and Hazel of Ripped Digital to talk about what it really takes to live and create on the more extreme side of BDSM. From navigating risk and safety in hardcore play to building a 24/7 power exchange dynamic, Lucas and Hazel share openly about their relationship, their porn production, and why empathy and trust are at the heart of everything they do.We dive into what it means to eroticize shame, how fantasies differ from reality, why safety tools like negotiation checklists and aftercare rituals matter, and how they’ve turned their personal kinks into a professional life that still feels authentic. If you’ve ever wanted to understand what happens behind the scenes of extreme kink content or how couples can thrive while exploring the edges of BDSM, this is one you won’t want to miss.Episode Highlights: Risk Awareness, Safety, and Harm Reduction Negotiation, Trust, and First-Time Scenes Eroticizing Shame and Exploring Taboo Fantasies Aligning Public and Private Kink Identities Sadism, Empathy, and Keeping Power in Check Why Authentic Headspace Matters More than Scripted Porn Cinematic Fantasies and Bucket List Scenes Creating Content that Feels Real and ExperientialConnect with Hazel and Lucas https://ripped.digital/scenes/Home-Movies-Lucas-and-his-little_vids.htmlConnect with Me: https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultanthttps://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/Speak Your Desires with Confidence - Download this FREE step-by-step guide to having open, honest, and judgment-free conversations about kink, boundaries, and pleasure.https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1
- 1 weeks ago47 min
The Kink Book That Actually Tells You What to Do with Shelby Devlin
Shelby Devlin returns to the pod to discuss her new book The Pleasure Protocol, why it is the practical guide kinksters have been missing, and how to navigate fantasy, desire, and consent in real life.Book A Consult Call with Amanda http://www.amandadames.com/CoachingThis week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, Amanda sits down with Shelby Devlin, Somatica-trained coach, educator, and author of The Pleasure Protocol: A Contemporary Guide to BDSM. They discuss why she wrote a practical, relational guide to kink when so many books focus only on roles, and why consent, repair, and communication are the pieces most books leave out.They explore the cultural shift away from masculine dominance and toward feminine dominance, why topping from the bottom can become coercive, and how to tell the difference between a fantasy and a desire. Shelby also shares the concept of repetition with agency, why coaches and therapists should focus on pleasure rather than pathologizing trauma, and what safety third actually means.If you have ever wanted a practical, current guide to navigating kink relationally, this episode is for you.Pre-Order The Pleasure Protocol Here: https://www.shelbydevlin.com/the-pleasure-protocolJoin the Koko Club Today! https://www.amandadames.com/offers/6uC24tgZConnect with Shelby Devlin: https://www.shelbydevlin.com/https://www.instagram.com/coachshelbydevlin/Download your FREE Worksheets: Fantasy mapping: https://www.amandadames.com/fantasy-mapping-with-amanda-dames-opt-inSpeaking your desires with confidence: https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1Connect with Amandahttps://www.amandadames.com/https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/Download the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey: https://www.amandadames.com/store
- 2 weeks ago1h 1m
How to Shame Proof Your Kink with Auntie Carmen
Auntie Carmen, the desire midwife, joins the podcast to discuss becoming shame proof, claiming your kinks, and having the kind of sex you actually want.Book A Consult Call with Amanda http://www.amandadames.com/CoachingThis week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, Amanda sits down with Auntie Carmen, the desire midwife, who helps women who are kink curious or identify as kinky become shame proof so they can uncover their true desires, claim their kinks, and have the sex they actually want.They explore how women are conditioned to be the receiver of desire rather than the person with the desire, why malnourishment and scarcity push people into settling, and how to tell the difference between fear and a genuine lack of compatibility. Auntie Carmen shares her own journey of discovering her submission in her 40s, meeting her dominant on FetLife from across the world, and why she believes shame should not be released but transformed into an erotic playground.If you have ever felt like a burden for wanting what you want, this episode is for you.Connect with Auntie Carmen https://www.instagram.com/shameproofyourdesires/https://shameproofyourdesires.com/Download your FREE Worksheets: Fantasy mapping: https://www.amandadames.com/fantasy-mapping-with-amanda-dames-opt-inSpeaking your desires with confidence: https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1Connect with Amandahttps://www.amandadames.com/https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/Download the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey: https://www.amandadames.com/store
- 3 weeks ago17 min
What Happens If They Freak Out?? | How to Tell Your Partner You're Kinky Part 3
In the final installment of this special three-part solo series, I am breaking down what to do if your partner says no or freaks out when you share your kink.Book A Consult Call with Amanda http://www.amandadames.com/CoachingThis week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, I close out the series on how to tell your partner you are kinky. In part one, we covered preparation and releasing shame. In part two, we walked through the exact conversation. In part three, we are talking about what happens after, whether it went well or it did not.I explain how to lead with curiosity about what has been coming up for your partner, how to address their fears without jumping into fix-it mode or defensiveness, and why you do not have to accept shame even when you are asking for understanding. I also break down the different levels of no, why a no is a boundary that must be respected, and how working with a coach or therapist can help you both find a path forward even when the kink itself is off the table.If you have shared your kink and it did not go the way you hoped, this episode gives you the next steps.Download your FREE Worksheets: Fantasy mapping: https://www.amandadames.com/fantasy-mapping-with-amanda-dames-opt-inSpeaking your desires with confidence: https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1Connect with Amandahttps://www.amandadames.com/https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/Download the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey: https://www.amandadames.com/store
- 4 weeks ago15 min
The Kink Conversation with Your Partner | How to Tell Your Partner You're Kinky Part 2
In part two of this special three-part solo series, I am breaking down exactly how to have the conversation with your partner about your kink.Book A Consult Call with Amanda http://www.amandadames.com/coachingThis week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, I continue the series on how to tell your partner you are kinky. In part two, I walk you through the actual conversation from start to finish. I explain how to set up the conversation at the right time, how to lead with curiosity before you share, and why asking for consent to share your fantasy changes everything. I also break down how to explain your kink in a way your partner can actually understand by naming the feeling underneath it, how to give them space to process, and why closing the conversation with gratitude and a future check-in date matters.If you have been ready to have the conversation but are not sure what to actually say, this episode gives you the exact framework.Download your FREE Worksheets: Fantasy mapping: https://www.amandadames.com/fantasy-mapping-with-amanda-dames-opt-inSpeaking your desires with confidence: https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1Connect with Amandahttps://www.amandadames.com/https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/Download the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey: https://www.amandadames.com/store
- Oct 8, 202619 min
How to Tell Your Partner You're Kinky - Part 1
In the first episode of a special three-part solo series, I am breaking down everything you need to know before you tell your partner you are kinky.Book A Consult Call with Amanda http://www.amandadames.com/coachingThis week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, I am launching a special solo series on how to tell your partner you are kinky. In part one, I focus on the preparation that needs to happen before the conversation even starts, because disclosing a kink and asking your partner to participate in it are two very different things.I walk through the questions you need to ask yourself first, including why you want to tell them, where your kink falls on the spectrum of fantasy, nice to have, and need, and how to identify the feeling underneath the kink so you can explain it in a way your partner can actually understand. I also address how to prepare for a no, why highly stigmatized kinks require extra time and softness, and why releasing shame is the number one thing standing between you and the experiences you want.If you have been hiding a kink, wondering how to bring it up, or scared of how your partner will react, this episode gives you the foundation you need before part two.Connect with Amandahttps://www.amandadames.com/https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/Download the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey: https://www.amandadames.com/store
- Oct 1, 202644 min
How to Build a Sex Room That Works For You with Melanie Rose
Melanie Rose, star of Netflix's How to Build a Sex Room, joins the podcast to discuss sex room design, the history of sex toys, and how to create a pleasure space that works for your body and your relationship.Book A Consult Call with Amanda http://www.amandadames.com/coachingThis week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, Amanda sits down with Melanie Rose, interior designer, artist, and host of Netflix's How to Build a Sex Room. They discuss how she went from designing kitchens and bathrooms to creating intimate sanctuaries for couples, why sex rooms do not have to look like dungeons, and how she approaches consultations with curiosity and zero judgment. They also discuss her favorite recommendations for spicing up a master bedroom, including the Tantra Chair, underbed restraint kits, and her curated website where everything has been personally tested or vetted.If you have ever wanted to add a little spice to your bedroom, wondered how to store your kinky items tastefully, or been curious about what it is really like to design a sex room, this episode is for you.Connect with Melanie Rosehttps://www.melanieruthrose.com/https://www.instagram.com/melanieruthrose/https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100013043105080https://www.pinterest.com/melanieruthrose/Connect with Amandahttps://www.amandadames.com/https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/Download the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey: https://www.amandadames.com/store
- Sep 24, 202652 min
How to Evolve Your Dynamic Without Losing Each Other: A 24/7 D/S Dynamic Story with Saffer Master and Lady Petra
The hosts of The Kinky Cocktail Hour join the podcast to share their 24/7 D/S dynamic story, how they evolved their relationship over time, and why kink is the way they communicate.Book A Consult Call with Amanda http://www.amandadames.com/coachingThis week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, Amanda sits down with Saffer Master and Lady Petra, hosts and producers of The Kinky Cocktail Hour podcast. They share their powerful origin story of coming out of 30-year marriages, finding each other on FetLife, and building a 24/7 dynamic. They explore how Lady Petra discovered her dominance after years of identifying as a service submissive, why they renew their vows every six months, and how checking your ego at the door is the key to a healthy dynamic. They also discuss the importance of daily debriefs, why kink is the way they communicate, and how they built their relationship through curiosity and connection.If you have ever wondered how a dynamic can evolve over time or how to navigate a major shift in roles, this episode offers a beautiful example of what is possible when both partners stay open and committed.Connect with Saffer Master and Lady Petrahttps://tinyurl.com/Hard-Marriedhttps://hardmarried.net/https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/kinky-cocktail-hour/id1505110538Connect with Amandahttps://www.amandadames.com/https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/Download the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey: https://www.amandadames.com/store
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