Heal Yourself. Change Your Life

Self-Healing Insights: What If Your Mind Feels That Love Is Unsafe? (Anna | Ep. 359)

September 17, 2026·11 min
Episode Description from the Publisher

What if you consciously want more love and connection… but another part of your mind feels like love is unsafe? This can happen more easily than people realize. Past hurt, rejection, criticism, or painful relationship experiences can create deeper subconscious feelings around love and connection…even when consciously, you deeply want more of both. And when one part of the mind is moving toward love while another part is pulling away, it can create a powerful feeling of stuckness. Almost like driving with one foot on the gas and one foot on the brake. In this episode, Brandy shares insights from working with a beautiful volunteer who deeply wanted more love and connection, yet discovered that part of her mind did not actually feel safe with love. And as they began working with that deeper pattern, something surprising happened with the physical pain she had been experiencing. In this episode, you'll discover: How hurt and rejection can create subconscious feelings that love is unsafe Why consciously wanting love doesn't necessarily mean every part of the mind feels safe receiving it How this inner conflict can affect relationships, happiness, and healing Why repeatedly releasing old wounds may not be enough if the deeper pattern remains unchanged Why creating new emotional programming around love, connection, and safety can be so important The goal is not simply to suppress hurt or layer positive thinking over it. It is to create a genuine change at a deeper level…so the mind is no longer simultaneously reaching for love while pulling away from it. Because when love begins to genuinely feel safe, it can open the door to a completely different experience of connection, healing, and life. → Continue Your Self-Healing Journey Listen to the Full Volunteer Self-Healing Session Click here to access today's self-healing session as Brandy Gillmore works directly with Anna Free Mind-Body Healing Training If you'd like a deeper understanding of mind-body healing and how self-healing works: Click here to join the FREE training. Brandy Gillmore's Mind-Body Healing: Scientific Research If you'd like scientific research on mind-body healing, you can view Brandy Gillmore's work published in a Medical Journal. Personal Empowerment and Self-Healing Courses If you're ready to heal yourself and change your life: Click here to explore our GIFT Mind-Body Healing™ and the GIFT Method™ Courses and GIFT Workshops. Connect With Brandy Follow Brandy on Facebook Follow Brandy on Instagram Questions? Discover more at https://brandygillmore.com or email support@BrandyGillmore.com   Important Note: This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a replacement for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Please continue to consult your doctor or qualified healthcare provider as recommended. Click here to view our full disclaimer- https://brandygillmore.com/terms/. © Brandy Gillmore / Human Potential Revolution, Inc. All Rights Reserved. This podcast and all related content are provided solely for personal, noncommercial use. No portion may be copied, recorded, transcribed, closely paraphrased, adapted, repackaged, distributed, taught, or used to create or support any course, coaching program, training, certification, product, service, or derivative content without prior written permission. This content may not be uploaded to, entered into, stored in, used by, or incorporated into any artificial-intelligence, machine-learning, voice-cloning, digital-replica, data-training, or related system. By accessing, listening to, viewing, downloading, or otherwise using this content, you agree to our Intellectual Property and

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