If you’re feeling overstimulated and disconnected, this episode’s for you. In it, we connect with Keanu Jackson, a sex therapist, to explore the complexities of desire, consent, and online sexuality in our modern world. Keanu Jackson is a Brooklyn, NY-based Sex Therapist, Content Creator, & Founder of Homebody Psychotherapy, a therapy practice that centers on supporting queer folks in building more nurturing relationships with their bodies. Keanu uses his experiences as a queer, Black man, sex worker, and survivor as a bridge to support others on their healing journeys.In this episode, we explore:* How to reconnect with your body through curiosity* Why sexual liberation might mean having less sex.* What you consent to by entering gay spaces.* How race impacts sexual dynamics and what we can do about it.* Keanu’s surprising recommendation for safer sex. Chapters(00:00) Introduction to Connection and Self-Discovery(01:52) The Impact of Personal Loss on Relationships(06:06) Exploring Sexuality and Identity in 2026(08:50) Understanding Consent in Modern Culture(12:08) Navigating Boundaries and Personal Safety(14:59) The Intersection of Digital Presence and Sexuality(20:59) Racism and Its Impact on Sexual Identity(26:24) Navigating Sexual Spaces: Race and Entitlement(30:12) The Importance of Acknowledging Racial Dynamics(33:54) Unspoken Assumptions in Queer Spaces(36:46) Building Self-Security and Curiosity(41:10) Exploring Sexual Compatibility and Connection(47:29) Curiosity in Black Diasporic Sexual Practices(50:40) Creating Community and ConnectionBefore You Go! * Please subscribe, rate, and review the show!* And share it with someone who you think might enjoy it. That’s the best way you can help us grow! Follow Along!Follow Keanu: https://www.instagram.com/homebodypsychotherapyFollow Aidan: https://www.instagram.com/aidanwhartonFollow Getting Close: https://www.instagram.com/gettingclosepodFollow on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@gettingclosepod This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit gettingclosepod.substack.com/subscribe
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