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Welcome to Divorce Happens, the podcast where we inspire, educate, and support you through divorce and beyond so that you can start fresh on the next phase of your journey. Produced by Fresh Starts Registry, the only divorce registry platform for everything you need to begin again, including home items, hype team, and everything in between. Remember, divorce happens...and then, we start fresh. We're here to support you before, during, and after divorce. Hosted by Olivia Dreizen Howell, the co-founder and CEO of Fresh Starts Registry.
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- 2 days ago14 min
Sexual Coercion in Marriage: The Signs, the Power Dynamic, and the Way Out with Divorce Coach Lisa Happ
She says yes so he'll stop. So he'll be kinder to the kids tonight. So the house will be quiet for a few days. And then she lies awake wondering if this is just what marriage is.In this episode of Divorce Happens, certified divorce coach and strategist Lisa Happ, who works exclusively in coercive control cases with clients around the world, joins Olivia Howell to name something many women have lived inside for years without the words for it: sexual coercion in marriage.Lisa explains how sexual coercion works as one more layer of coercive control. It isn't always force. More often it's the constant begging, the belittling, the threats to go elsewhere, the guilt about "wifely duty," and the irritability that spills onto the children until saying yes feels like the only way to keep the peace. She breaks down the power dynamic behind it, why an abusive partner keeps pushing for more control, and why it can feel so confusing when your body and your mind don't agree. Her simplest test is one listeners won't forget: if you are doing it to get a sense of relief, like a "thank God that is over" kind of relief, that is coercion. Olivia adds her own version: notice whether you're more afraid of the no than the yes.Most of all, this conversation offers a way forward. Lisa shares the first step she gives every client (telling yourself "this isn't okay, this isn't normal"), how to start talking to a doctor, therapist, coach, or trusted friend, and why she moves at the pace a client's nervous system can handle. She also explains why working with a coach and a therapist at the same time can help survivors of coercive control, emotional abuse, and sexual coercion heal and rebuild. If you've ever wondered whether what's happening in your bedroom is really okay, this episode will help you see it clearly and know you're not alone.🔗 Check out Fresh Starts Registry:The first & only divorce registry + support platform ➡ https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freshstartsregistry/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FreshStartsRegistry👥 Facebook Group: https://divorceaskanything.com/🎙 Podcast IG: https://www.instagram.com/divorcehappenspod/📬 Magazine: https://divorceguidemagazine.com/💛 The Divorce Happens Community: https://divorcehappens.substack.com/
- 5 days ago5 min
Hey Olivia, how do I let go of the shame and begin trusting myself again to rebuild from scratch after a long marriage?
“From the outside, I had everything. On the inside, I was disappearing.” This week's Hey Olivia letter comes from someone who walked away from a long marriage and a life that looked perfect on paper, and who now hears a loud voice calling it failure. They haven't told many people the truth, they're terrified of starting over later in life, and they asked me the question so many of us carry after divorce: How do I let go of the shame and begin trusting myself again to rebuild from scratch? If you've left a marriage everyone thought was fine, this one is for you.I start with courage, because walking away from a life that looks perfect, after decades and with everyone watching, is one of the hardest things a person can do. Being terrified doesn't mean you chose wrong. It means you're standing at the edge of something new. Then we look at where divorce shame comes from: we're taught that a successful marriage is a long one that looks good from the outside, so when it ends, the shame arrives right on schedule. I know that voice from my own divorce, and here's what I've learned. Shame is a story, not a fact. You loved, you built something, you grew, and you made a decision for your well-being. You don't need a dramatic reason to justify wanting more air.And starting over isn't really starting from scratch. You carry decades of skills, wisdom, relationships, and resilience into this chapter. Walking away was already an act of self-trust, maybe the biggest one of your life, and I share how self-trust keeps growing through tiny promises kept, like a walk three mornings a week or one evening that's just yours. I also offer simple words for when people say “but you seem so happy,” and remind you that a therapist and a divorce coach can help you rebuild at your own pace. You are so much further along than you think.🔗 Check out Fresh Starts Registry:The first & only divorce registry + support platform ➡ https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freshstartsregistry/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FreshStartsRegistry👥 Facebook Group: https://divorceaskanything.com/🎙 Podcast IG: https://www.instagram.com/divorcehappenspod/📬 Magazine: https://divorceguidemagazine.com/💛 The Divorce Happens Community: https://divorcehappens.substack.com/
- 5 days ago5 min
Hey Olivia, my husband is leaving after an affair and I'm terrified of my future. What do I do?
“I don't want to have to be here, but I don't know where else to turn.” That's how this week's Hey Olivia letter begins, and if you've been blindsided by divorce, you may know that feeling in your bones. This listener's husband asked for a divorce out of nowhere, confessed to an affair two days later, agreed to work on the marriage, and then, after months of therapy, said he was done. With two kids, part-time work, and years of depending on one income, they wrote: “I'm devastated and terrified of my future.” They have lawyer consults lined up and don't know anything about any of this. If that's where you are right now, this episode is for you.I start where the fear lives. Nobody wants to be here, and of course you're devastated and scared: you were building a future and it was pulled out from under you. That terror isn't only about money or logistics. It's your nervous system asking, Am I safe when the future you planned has just disappeared? That fear isn't a sign you can't do this. It's a sign you're human. Then I ask you to look at what you've already done: blindsided, you still showed up, asked for the affair to end, went to therapy, and tried for months. The person who tried this hard is going to be okay. And I talk about grieving two things at once, the marriage and the future you pictured, and why you can feel devastated, angry, heartbroken, and still love someone, all in the same minute. Grief doesn't move in a straight line, and you don't have to rush it.Then we get practical. Three lawyer consults is a smart start, and I share the questions to bring to your first divorce lawyer consultation, plus why your attorney is one player on your divorce team and someone who should make you feel respected. I talk about how a divorce coach or a certified divorce financial analyst can help when finances feel scary, why organized and steady is the goal (boring is good, and boring is safe), and a few gentle steps for this week, from signing out of iMessage on shared devices to keeping your kids' routines steady. You don't have to do this alone, and you are so much further along than you think.🔗 Check out Fresh Starts Registry:The first & only divorce registry + support platform ➡ https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freshstartsregistry/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FreshStartsRegistry👥 Facebook Group: https://divorceaskanything.com/🎙 Podcast IG: https://www.instagram.com/divorcehappenspod/📬 Magazine: https://divorceguidemagazine.com/💛 The Divorce Happens Community: https://divorcehappens.substack.com/
- 5 days ago6 min
Hey Olivia, how do I make a divorce registry when I've never asked for help?
“I rarely asked anyone for help in my life, and I think that's what scares me the most.” That line from this week's Hey Olivia letter stopped me. The listener who wrote in hasn't made a divorce registry yet and doesn't know how. Where do I start? What do I actually need? Will strangers even help? Is it weird to put paper towels on the list? If you're starting over after divorce, looking at a new space and a blank page, and wondering whether you're even allowed to ask, this episode is for you. You're not behind. You're right on time.I start with the fear underneath the logistics. If you've spent your life being the self-sufficient one, your nervous system has learned that doing it all yourself is what keeps you safe, so asking feels risky. That jittery feeling doesn't mean you're doing something wrong. It means you're doing something new. When I was rebuilding after my own divorce, I didn't have anyone showing me how, or any way for the people who loved me to really help, and that's a big part of why we built Fresh Starts. A divorce registry isn't begging, it's an invitation. Then we get practical: how to build a divorce registry from curated bundles organized by room, decor style, and budget; why you should start with what you'd miss on night one (towels, sheets, plates, cups, a bathrobe, a bath mat); and why paper towels belong on the list, because people love an easy yes.We also talk about how much is too much (mix everyday essentials, a few bigger items, and a couple of things just for joy), what registry fairies are and why a stranger choosing your fresh start is so powerful, how to share your registry with the people you trust most, and why saying thank you is part of the gift of receiving. You'll leave with one tiny next step: tonight, add five things you use today. Asking for help is a skill you can practice, and you are so much further along than you think.🔗 Check out Fresh Starts Registry:The first & only divorce registry + support platform ➡ https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freshstartsregistry/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FreshStartsRegistry🎙 Podcast IG: https://www.instagram.com/divorcehappenspod/📬 Magazine: https://divorceguidemagazine.com/💛 The Divorce Happens Community: https://divorcehappens.substack.com/
- 2 weeks ago5 min
Hey Olivia, is it normal to feel like your whole social circle shifted overnight?
“I looked around at a dinner with 'my people' recently, the friend group I'd had for over a decade, and realized none of them were actually there for me during my divorce.” It’s a quiet, disorienting moment: sitting at a familiar table with people who have known you for years and realizing they weren’t the ones who carried you through the hardest season of your life. In this Hey Olivia episode of Divorce Happens, Olivia takes on a question so many people ask after divorce: is it normal to feel like your whole social circle shifted overnight?Olivia’s answer starts with a distinction that changes everything. A decade of history and the actual capacity to show up during a crisis are two completely different things. Crisis reveals capacity, not just affection, and a friend who couldn’t show up may still genuinely care. She explains how fixed roles in long friendships can make it hard for old friends to show up differently, even when you need them to. And she reframes that feeling of being a stranger at your own dinner table: it isn’t something to push past. It’s real, useful data.From there, Olivia offers a gentler path than confrontation. You can quietly let your time follow what’s actually being reciprocated, no dramatic conversation required. If newer friends are the ones showing up, that doesn’t make those friendships any less real or meaningful. And this kind of social loss deserves real space of its own, separate from the grief of the divorce itself. As Olivia puts it, “Crisis reveals capacity, not just affection.”🔗 Check out Fresh Starts Registry:The first & only divorce registry + support platform ➡ https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freshstartsregistry/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FreshStartsRegistry🎙 Podcast IG: https://www.instagram.com/divorcehappenspod/📬 Magazine: https://divorceguidemagazine.com/💛 The Divorce Happens Community: https://divorcehappens.substack.com/
- 2 weeks ago5 min
Hey Olivia, how do I stop keeping score of who picked his side?
"Some of our mutual friends have clearly chosen his side since the divorce, still inviting him to game nights, tagging him in photos I wasn't asked to. I've caught myself scrolling old group texts, mentally tallying who reached out and who didn't." In this Hey Olivia listener letter episode, Olivia helps a listener let go of the compulsive habit of tallying who chose which side after a divorce.Olivia covers:Why the sting of mutual friends quietly sorting themselves after a divorce is a real, specific loss, not an overreactionWhy tallying who reached out gives concrete shape to diffuse hurt, but doesn't actually resolve anythingThe real difference between grieving a social shift and endlessly tallying itWhy not every friend who drifted made a moral judgment — some of it is structural, tied to old patterns and existing connectionsA simple tool for interrupting the loop: naming it plainly out loud, "I'm keeping score again"Why redirecting energy toward the people who did show up matters more than auditing who leftWhy letting go of the tally isn't the same as pretending the loss didn't hurt"Grieving genuinely moves you through the loss, toward something on the other side of it. Tallying substitutes for grieving."Need support navigating this? Fresh Starts offers free consults, a vetted professional network, and free guides. Learn more at freshstartsregistry.com.If this episode helped, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs to hear it today.🔗 Check out Fresh Starts Registry:The first & only divorce registry + support platform ➡ https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freshstartsregistry/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FreshStartsRegistry🎙 Podcast IG: https://www.instagram.com/divorcehappenspod/📬 Magazine: https://divorceguidemagazine.com/💛 The Divorce Happens Community: https://divorcehappens.substack.com/
- 2 weeks ago5 min
Hey Olivia, how do I make peace with people not being who I thought they were?
"I always assumed my college best friends, the four of us who swore we'd be there for each other no matter what, would be in my corner no matter what happened in my marriage. When it actually fell apart, I found out that wasn't true." In this Hey Olivia listener letter episode, Olivia helps a listener make sense of a twenty-year friendship belief tested for the first time — and coming back different than expected.Olivia covers:Why this is a heavier kind of disillusionment than an ordinary friendship fading over timeWhy "no matter what" is often a promise made in theory that's never actually tested until real crisis arrivesWhy having new information now doesn't mean you got someone wrong for twenty yearsThe difference between someone's capacity in a specific moment and who they fundamentally are as a personA truer middle ground between "they were fake friends" and "I'm overreacting": real friends who didn't have what this specific moment requiredWhy making peace doesn't mean rewriting twenty years of real memories, just updating expectations going forwardWhy the friend who did show up deserves to be the center of this story, not a footnote"Untested loyalty and proven loyalty are not the same thing, even when they're spoken with total sincerity at the time they're made."Need support navigating this? Fresh Starts offers free consults, a vetted professional network, and free guides. Learn more at freshstartsregistry.com.If this episode helped, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs to hear it today.🔗 Check out Fresh Starts Registry:The first & only divorce registry + support platform ➡ https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freshstartsregistry/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FreshStartsRegistry🎙 Podcast IG: https://www.instagram.com/divorcehappenspod/📬 Magazine: https://divorceguidemagazine.com/💛 The Divorce Happens Community: https://divorcehappens.substack.com/
- 2 weeks ago5 min
Hey Olivia, how do I ask for space without hurting the person who actually showed up for me?
"My sister has been showing up for me nonstop since my divorce, texting every morning and every night, asking if I'm okay a hundred times a week until the question itself starts to feel like pressure." In this Hey Olivia listener letter episode, Olivia helps a listener navigate the flip side of support: how to ask for space from someone whose love is real, without hurting them or feeling ungrateful.Olivia covers:Why needing space from even the most loving support isn't a betrayal of that love or a sign of ingratitudeWhy the guilt of wanting an hour of quiet makes sense, but isn't accurateThe difference between constant checking and actually calibrated supportWhy asking for space is giving someone honest information, not pushing them awayA specific script structure: gratitude first, the specific need second, reassurance thirdWhy unaddressed over-support can quietly build resentment, just like under-support canWhy a pattern of managing everyone else's feelings before your own is worth bringing to a therapist"Asking for space isn't the same as pushing her away. It's giving her real, honest information that actually helps her love you more effectively, not less."Need support navigating this? Fresh Starts offers free consults, a vetted professional network, and free guides. Learn more at freshstartsregistry.com.If this episode helped, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs to hear it today.🔗 Check out Fresh Starts Registry:The first & only divorce registry + support platform ➡ https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freshstartsregistry/📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FreshStartsRegistry🎙 Podcast IG: https://www.instagram.com/divorcehappenspod/📬 Magazine: https://divorceguidemagazine.com/💛 The Divorce Happens Community: https://divorcehappens.substack.com/
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Welcome to Divorce Happens, the podcast where we inspire, educate, and support you through divorce and beyond so that you can start fresh on the next phase of your journey. Produced by Fresh Starts Registry, the only divorce registry platform for everything you need to begin again, including home items, hype team, and everything in between. Remember, divorce happens...and then, we start fresh. We're here to support you before, during, and after divorce. Hosted by Olivia Dreizen Howell, the co-founder and CEO of Fresh Starts Registry.
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