#39 Sploshing or licking feet – What's the difference between kink and fetish?

CRUDE #39Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to finally dive deep into how they each define kink and fetish, what these concepts mean to them personally, and how they shape their relationships, identities, and everyday lives. In this episode, the trio explores the differences and overlaps between kink culture, fetish culture, latex, and sexual expression, sharing real-life experiences, misconceptions they’ve encountered, and the evolution of their own desires.They talk about the role of consent, communication, boundaries, power dynamics, and negotiation within kink; how specific fetishes develop; and why self-acceptance is key in any alternative sexuality journey. The conversation also touches on how many people turn to sex workers to explore their kinks and fetishes.*What we were consuming*[Book] Anastasiia Federova, Second Skin: Inside the Worlds of Fetish, Kink and Deviant Desire (2025)[Book] Justin Lehmiller, The Psychology of Human Sexuality (2014)[Definition] Paraphilia – a condition characterized by unusual sexual desires, typically involving extreme or dangerous activities.[Wikipedia] Jessica Rabbit[Fetish] "objectophile" or "objectum sexual": An individual who experiences romantic or sexual feelings towards inanimate objects.[Book] Emily Nagoski , Come as You Are (2015)