Connected and Capable

19. 5 Tricks for Kids that Hate Getting Their Hair Washed

May 11, 2026·23 min
Episode Description from the Publisher

If hair washing turns into tears, resistance, or full-blown meltdowns in your house… I’m breaking down what’s really going on beneath the surface when kids struggle with having their hair washed, especially for sensory and neurodivergent kids. Because once you understand why this everyday task feels so overwhelming, everything starts to shift.We’ll talk about how past experiences, sensory sensitivities, and even hidden systems like the vestibular system can play a bigger role than you might think. And why some kids seem “fine”… until suddenly they’re not.I’m also sharing 5 simple, practical strategies you can start using right away to make hair washing feel safer, calmer, and more doable for everyone. If bath time has been a battle, this episode will help you look at it differently—and take the first step toward changing it.Mentioned in this episode:How to Decrease Aggressive Behaviors Workshop: https://yourkidstable.com/aggressive-behaviors/Vestibular sensitivity podcast episodeKey Timestamps:00:00 Why hair washing can turn into a meltdown01:20 What’s really going on (it’s not just behavior)03:30 The hidden sensory trigger most parents miss08:00 Strategy #1 that changes everything fast12:30 Small tweaks that make a big difference17:10 The step most parents skip (but matters most)MORE RESOURCES FOR YOUReady for a simple plan to overcome the attention, sleep, sensory, and big emotion challenges? I'll show you how for uniquely wired kids 1-18 years old in just 2-5 minutes a day. Join me in The Connection Hive-- https://YourKidsTable.com/TCHLET'S CONNECT:Instagram: https://Instagram.com/YourkidstableFacebook: https://Facebook.com/YourkidstablePinterest: https://Pinterest.com/YourkidstableIf you enjoyed this episode, we'd be so grateful if you left us a review! It's a huge help in encouraging us and letting us know what parents with uniquely wired kids need the most.

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