Coach Lee

The Biggest Lie Your Pain Is Telling You After a Breakup

July 7, 2026·11 min
Episode Description from the Publisher

After a breakup, your emotions can feel overwhelming. In fact, your pain may convince you of things that simply aren't true. It may tell you that your ex is already over you, that you've lost your chance forever, or that you need to do something immediately before it's too late. Those thoughts feel real because the pain is real. But feelings are not always facts. In this episode, I explain why heartbreak often distorts your thinking, the five biggest lies emotional pain tells you after a breakup, and how understanding those lies can help you avoid mistakes that hurt both your healing and your chances of reconciliation. If you're struggling with a breakup, wondering if your ex still loves you, considering the No Contact Rule, or simply trying to find peace after heartbreak, this episode is for you. Topics covered include: Why your ex may not actually be over you Why urgency after a breakup is often misleading The truth about social media after a breakup Whether you've really lost your chance forever Why your current pain won't last forever How to avoid making decisions based on fear instead of reality If this episode helps you, please consider following the podcast and sharing it with someone who needs encouragement after a breakup. Learn more and find additional resources: https://MyExBackCoach.com If your spouse wants a separation or divorce, you'll also find resources for married couples here. #breakup #heartbreak #nocontact #relationshipadvice #gettingyourexback

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