036: The Power of Belonging: Why Your Child’s ‘Bad’ Behavior is a Cry for Connection

In this episode, we’re diving into Connection—the first of the 4 Crucial Cs. We’re moving past the "fixing behavior" mindset and getting to the heart of the matter: Belonging isn't a luxury; it’s a biological survival need. When a child doesn't feel that solid sense of "I belong here," they don't just sit still—they scramble to get back into your spotlight. We call these Mistaken Goals. Whether they are acting like a clown or playing the helpless victim, they aren't trying to be bad; they are trying to be seen.Join the Conversation: Your ideas and questions matter. Let us know a fun way you created to connect this week! We’d love to hear your ideas and answer your questions. Share your thoughts on Instagram or drop us an email at questions@familyleadershipcenter.org.🙏Subscribe & Rate: If you’re enjoying the podcast, please take a moment to rate and review us wherever you listen to your podcasts. ⁉️Questions/Suggestions/Feedback: Your feedback helps us continue bringing you helpful and insightful episodes every week. Please email us at questions@familyleadershipcenter.orgHosts Marjie Longshore, Founder of Family Leadership CenterPaige Trevor, Parent CoachSpecial thanks to editor Max Cotter and Wendy TracyResources🤓 Check out Paige’s Resource Page for the Ultimate Chore List🎧Reboot Special Time with Episode 05: The Present of Your Presence: 1-on-1 Time with Your Child Boosts Confidence and Trust 🧰Pick up a Family Meeting Toolkit if you don’t already have one!Join our community and share what happens when you look for strengths and share them with the children in your life!Stay Connected📝Subscribe to the Family Leadership Center newsletter⚖️Subscribe to Paige's newsletter