035: Encouragement: the heart of it all

Stop Praising, Start EmpoweringWe’ve all been there: over-praising in an effort to motivate, only to realize that external validation isn't the same thing as internal courage. Or, we try to "help" by pointing out what needs fixing, unintentionally leaving everyone feeling discouraged.This week, Marjie and Paige dive into the real engine of a happy home: Encouragement. It’s more than just a pat on the back—it’s about giving our kids (and ourselves!) the courage to be imperfect, to grow, and to contribute.Join the Conversation: Your ideas and questions matter. We’d love to hear your ideas and answer your questions. Share your thoughts on Instagram or drop us an email at questions@familyleadershipcenter.org.🙏Subscribe & Rate: If you’re enjoying the podcast, please take a moment to rate and review us wherever you listen to your podcasts. ⁉️Questions/Suggestions/Feedback: Your feedback helps us continue bringing you helpful and insightful episodes every week. Please email us at questions@familyleadershipcenter.orgHosts Marjie Longshore, Founder of Family Leadership CenterPaige Trevor, Parent CoachSpecial thanks to editor Max Cotter and Wendy TracyResources🤓 Check out Paige’s Ode to Encouragement Blog for some more inspiration🎧 Marjie and Louisa share wonderful ways to encourage through strengths: 018: Finding Strengths: The Essence of Encouragement🧰 Pick up a Family Meeting Toolkit if you don’t already have one!📄 Encouragement vs Discouragement Handout📖 Books mentioned: Punished by Rewards, by Alfie Kohn and Mindset, by Carol DweckJoin our community and share what happens when you look for strengths and share them with the children in your life!Stay Connected📝Subscribe to the Family Leadership Center newsletter⚖️Subscribe to Paige's newsletter