How This Black Baptist Pastor Became an LGBTQ Advocate | Deconstructing Homophobia

In this powerful conversation, Lauren Lanzaretta interviews Pastor Kristian Smith—a straight, fifth-generation Baptist preacher and fierce LGBTQ+ advocate—about his journey from embedded homophobia to becoming one of the most vocal allies in the Black church community.Kristian shares how a simple question asked in seminary—"Did you choose your sexuality?"—completely transformed his theology. He discusses why so much homophobia is rooted in sexual discomfort, the importance of visibility in Black and queer communities, and what real allyship looks like in 2026.This is a must-watch for anyone seeking to understand intersectional faith, spirituality, and justice.About Kristian Smith:Public theologian, digital pastor, author of "Breaking All the Rules" and "Question Your Answers: A Deconstruction Survival Guide." Host of the Holy Smokes Cigar and Spirituality Podcast. Master's of Divinity from Mercer University's McAfee School of Theology.YOU CAN BE BOTH PODCAST: A faith-rooted, justice-centered conversation space for LGBTQ+ people and allies. Join Lauren Lanzaretta as she talks faith, identity, and what it means to be authentically yourself.CONNECT WITH US:🌐 YouCanBeBoth.com📱 Instagram: @youcanbeboth| @Lanzaretta▶️ YouTube: SUBSCRIBE :) 🎵 TikTok: @youcanbeebothpodcastFOLLOW KRISTIAN SMITH:📱 Instagram: @kristianasmithBOOK -- Breaking All The Rules: An Ancient Framework for Modern Faith: https://amzn.to/4f6XO6z