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by Andrew Stolpestad, Paul Wandrey
Andrew, an aspiring dad, and Paul, a dad of two, dig deep to find out what it means to be/become the best dad possible, why it matters, and how to do so.
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- 4 days ago48 min
Building Better Men: The Power of Modeling and Brotherhood | Shaun Dawson
Summary: How do we raise boys into good men when the world seems confused about what a good man even is? In this episode, Paul and Andrew sit down with Shaun Dawson, host of Raising Men, to talk about modern masculinity, brotherhood, emotional safety, ego in parenting, and what boys need from the men around them. Show Notes: How do we raise boys into good men when the world seems confused about what a good man even is? In this episode, Paul and Andrew sit down with Shaun Dawson, host of Raising Men, to talk about modern masculinity, brotherhood, emotional safety, ego in parenting, and what boys need from the men around them. Shaun shares a painfully relatable dad story about watching his son at basketball practice and realizing his frustration had more to do with his own ego than his son’s performance. From there, the conversation opens into a bigger question: what does it actually mean to model healthy masculinity for our kids? We talk about: • Why dads can get triggered when their kids struggle in public • The difference between preparing the child for the road and clearing every obstacle • Why men often want to open up but don’t feel safe doing it • How brotherhood has to be rebuilt intentionally • Why boys need worthy men around them, not just lectures about manhood • How fathers can create a “castle” where their families can thrive • Why cultivating excellence in our kids starts with cultivating it in ourselves Guest: Shaun Dawson is a husband, father of two, tech leader, and host of Raising Men, a podcast about parenting, masculinity, and raising sons into men of courage, character, and purpose. Links: Raising Men: https://raising.men/ About Shaun Dawson: https://raising.men/about-shaun-dawson Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1HdOjO18HibC17XnyrFOv5 Steve Biddulph: https://www.stevebiddulph.com/Site_1/Home.html Call to Action: If this episode made you think of a dad, uncle, coach, mentor, or friend who is trying to raise good men, send it their way. And if you’re enjoying Why, Dad?, follow the show and leave a review. It helps other dads find these conversations.
- 1 weeks ago1h 9m
Episode 48: Boundaries, Apologies, and Spit-Takes
This week on Why, Dad?, Paul and Andrew unpack a family vacation that turned into an unexpected lesson on parenting, boundaries, and community. After a few tense moments involving overtired kids, public meltdowns, and well-meaning corrections from close friends, the guys dive into a difficult but important question: What happens when the people who love your kids discipline them differently than you would? The conversation explores: Why words like “bad” and “naughty” can stick with kids longer than we realize The tension between setting firm boundaries and practicing empathy How parents and non-parents alike are all learning in real time Why correction should never threaten a child’s sense of being loved The importance of honest conversations between adults when conflict happens How growth — for kids and adults — comes through repetition, mistakes, and grace Along the way, Paul and Andrew reflect on the pressure parents feel to “get it right,” the value of having invested friends and family in your children’s lives, and why being a good dad, uncle, or mentor is less about perfection and more about showing up consistently. At its core, this episode is about learning how to raise kids together — even when perspectives collide.
- 2 weeks ago48 min
From Compulsion to Connection | Chris Rogers
Most dads know they need to talk to their kids about the digital world. Most just don’t know where to start. In this episode, we sit down with Chris Rogers, a former teacher and coach who works with teens and families navigating unhealthy digital habits, shame, identity, and hard conversations. We talk about: Why shame pushes kids into secrecy The dangers of a screen-first childhood Why filters and blockers are only part of the solution Helping kids become self-aware instead of fear-driven The importance of identity and intentionality Creating a home where questions are safe Why “the home is the rehearsal room” might change your parenting forever This conversation isn’t just about screens. It’s about becoming the kind of parent your kids can actually come to. Guest Chris Rogers is a former teacher turned coach who helps teens and families navigate compulsive digital behaviors, self-awareness, and healthy identity formation. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Why Dad Podcast 03:10 The Importance of Open Dialogue 06:32 Understanding the Impact of Technology 09:13 The Gender Dynamics of Sexual Education 12:33 Age of Exposure to Sexual Content 16:07 Building Self-Awareness and Accountability 18:00 Practical Exercises for Self-Discovery 24:15 Empowering Conversations with Children 24:39 Empowering Self-Awareness and Accountability 25:17 Overcoming Authoritarian Upbringing 27:11 Navigating Conversations About Desire and Discipline 28:55 The Journey of Self-Awareness and Identity 30:52 The Importance of Intentionality in Parenting 32:52 Shifting Focus from Avoidance to Goals 35:08 Identity Transformation Through Intentional Actions 37:27 Facilitating Growth and Self-Discovery in Children 38:44 The Role of Family Dynamics in Personal Development 39:38 Preparing for Fatherhood: Lessons Learned 42:53 Creating a Supportive Home Environment 46:44 Final Thoughts on Compassionate Parenting Connect with Chris Rogers and learn more about the Rebooted Teen Program: 📱 Instagram: @rebootedteenhttps://www.instagram.com/rebootedteen/ Website: https://www.rebootedteen.com/
- 3 weeks ago1h 0m
Episode 46: Are We Overstimulating our Kids?
This episode of the YDad Podcast is a “duosode” conversation between Paul and Andrew exploring whether modern kids are being overstimulated into passivity. They begin with light banter, then shift into a deeper discussion about how the number of toys, screen time, and constant stimulation may affect creativity, attention span, independence, and social development. Andrew references small-scale observational studies suggesting that children given fewer toys (such as four instead of sixteen) demonstrated longer focus, greater creativity, and deeper engagement. He also shares an example of a German kindergarten that removed toys from the classroom; after an initial adjustment period, students reportedly became more imaginative, collaborative, and focused. The hosts emphasize that these findings aren’t definitive conclusions, but they raise interesting questions about stimulation and development. The conversation expands to screen time. Both agree that excessive digital use may be more impactful than physical toys, especially given how addictive screens can be for some children. They discuss how video games and instant-reward systems can reduce perseverance and critical thinking compared to more open-ended play. They also note that while technology is not inherently bad, it requires intentional boundaries. They reflect on outdoor play, recalling their own childhood experiences with imaginative, unstructured time outside. They contrast that with modern trends showing children spending very little time outdoors and significant time on screens. They emphasize that boredom is not something to eliminate, but a skill children need to develop—because learning how to sit with boredom can foster creativity, independence, and resilience. The hosts also discuss gift-giving culture, suggesting that instead of accumulating more toys, families can prioritize books, board games, art supplies, and other tools that encourage long-term engagement and imagination. They highlight examples such as board games, competitive tabletop games, and educational kits that promote hands-on learning and family interaction. They also stress that gifts should be intentional rather than excessive, helping avoid clutter, entitlement, and overstimulation. Toward the end, the conversation briefly touches on education and AI, raising questions about screen-based learning and whether overreliance on digital tools could weaken foundational thinking skills. They acknowledge that technology is unavoidable and can be beneficial when used purposefully, but it should not replace critical thinking development. Overall, the episode centers on intentional parenting in a consumer-driven, screen-heavy culture. Rather than concluding with rigid rules, they encourage reflection: reducing unnecessary stimulation, promoting outdoor play, fostering boredom tolerance, choosing thoughtful gifts, and helping children develop creativity and independence. The tone remains conversational, self-reflective, and focused on growth rather than expertise.
- May 5, 202642 min
Lead Yourself First: How Dads Rebuild Strength, Discipline, and Purpose with Sean McManus
Sean McManus shares his journey from feeling overwhelmed, impatient, and uncertain as a new father to becoming a coach who helps men rebuild themselves physically, mentally, spiritually, and relationally. This conversation explores how dads can stop relying solely on discipline and instead build practical systems that create consistency, strength, and leadership in their homes. Sean opens up about marriage struggles, escapism, mentorship, biblical masculinity, and why investing in yourself can radically change your family’s future. If you’re a dad or aspiring father who wants to lead with greater strength, clarity, and purpose, this episode offers practical wisdom and powerful perspective. Episode Overview: Sean McManus joins Why Dad? to discuss how men can rebuild themselves from the inside out through faith, fitness, systems, and intentional leadership. Key Topics Covered: 💪 The reality shock of new fatherhood 🧠 Escapism vs ownership 🔥 Why mentorship accelerates growth 🏡 Leadership starts with self-leadership 📅 Systems over motivation and discipline 🙏 Biblical masculinity in modern fatherhood 🍎 Nutrition and physical stewardship 🤝 Brotherhood and accountability ⏳ Redefining consistency ❤️ Building stronger marriages through personal growth Key Takeaways: You can’t lead your family well if you don’t lead yourself first Motivation fades, systems sustain Consistency is how quickly you return after falling off Investing in yourself pays dividends for your family Brotherhood and mentorship matter Fitness and nutrition are stewardship, not vanity Guest Info: Sean McManus Men’s Strength & Nutrition Coach Socials: @theseanmcmanus
- Apr 28, 202622 min
Just a quickie...
In this reflective episode of Why, Dad?, Paul and Andrew take a step back after 43 episodes and over a year of conversations on fatherhood, virtue, and growth. Rather than introducing a new topic, they revisit the moments, lessons, and guests that have shaped the podcast—and their lives. They highlight the power of gratitude, recalling how a simple daily practice—especially within the family—can shift perspective even on the hardest days. What started as a concept became a lived habit, reinforcing the idea that formation happens in the small, consistent choices. The conversation also centers on community—not just talking about it, but building it. From their first small gatherings to what they hope will grow into something lasting, they reflect on the deep need men have for authentic brotherhood: a space not just for venting, but for accountability, challenge, and growth. They revisit impactful guest conversations, including: A discussion on intentional fatherhood and marriage, emphasizing that a strong marriage forms the foundation of the family. The idea of “fridge rights”—creating a home that welcomes and forms not just your kids, but others who may need guidance. The concept of “reverse engineering” your child’s life, giving them opportunities and support to become who they’re meant to be. And the importance of a personal “starting five”—the men you intentionally surround yourself with to help you grow. Throughout the episode, a common thread emerges: intentionality. Whether it’s in marriage, friendship, fatherhood, or personal growth—what isn’t chosen deliberately will be filled passively. This episode is both a look back and a call forward: To be more present. To build stronger relationships. To pursue virtue with purpose. And to never do it alone.
- Apr 21, 202648 min
Paralyzed at 20, Father of Triplets at 54 | Ken Kunken on Fatherhood and Resilience
In this episode, Paul and Andrew sit down with Ken Kunken to talk about how a life-changing football injury at age 20 led him down a completely unexpected path. Ken shares how paralysis reshaped his identity, why he never thought marriage or fatherhood would be possible, and how meeting his wife Anna changed everything. He opens up about becoming a dad to triplets at 54, raising sons with empathy and strong values, and why family, patience, and presence matter far more than physical ability. The conversation also touches on disability, faith, diversity, resilience, and Ken’s book, I Dream of Things That Never Were. Episode Description At 20 years old, Ken Kunken’s life changed forever after a football injury left him almost completely paralyzed. He never thought he would get married. He never thought he would become a father. Then he met his wife, Anna. Years later, through IVF, they became parents to triplet boys. In this episode, Ken shares his unbelievable story of resilience, identity, disability, marriage, faith, and fatherhood. He talks about learning to redefine what it means to be a dad when you cannot do things the way you once imagined, why presence matters more than perfection, and how raising his sons changed his life forever. This is a conversation about overcoming impossible odds, building a meaningful life, and becoming the father your family needs, even when life looks nothing like you expected. In This Episode Paul and Andrew sit down with Ken Kunken to hear the incredible story of how a football injury changed his life forever and how he still built a life full of purpose, family, and fatherhood. Ken talks about paralysis, identity, marriage, IVF, becoming a dad to triplets, and what he learned about being present for his kids despite severe physical limitations. Topics Covered Becoming paralyzed at 20 after a football injury Learning to redefine identity after losing athleticism Meeting the woman who changed everything Becoming a father through IVF Finding out they were having triplets Parenting with physical limitations Why presence matters more than physical ability Raising empathetic and resilient sons Teaching kids patience, diversity, and family values The importance of community and support Ken’s book and the meaning behind its title Memorable Moments Ken finding out all three embryos took and they were having triplets Feeding one of his sons using his lap board and balancing a bottle on his arm His boys checking whether places had ramps so dad could come too His son calmly helping him through a low blood pressure episode in the grocery store Ken explaining why he wanted his sons to know they could do anything they set their minds to The story behind the title of his book, inspired by a quote from Robert F. Kennedy Connect with Ken Website: kenkunken.com Book: I Dream of Things That Never Were Audiobook narrated by Ken
- Apr 7, 20261h 12m
Grief, God, and Fatherhood: Mick’s Story
This episode is different. We sit down with Mick Wienholt to talk about fatherhood that begins with loss. Mick and his wife lost their firstborn son, Luke, at full term. What followed wasn’t a clean or simple healing process. It was grief, questions, anger, surrender… and eventually, transformation. In this conversation, we talk about: What it feels like to become a dad and lose your child in the same moment How grief reshapes your identity as a man and husband The difference between moving on and moving forward How to support someone walking through loss And how Mick carries Luke into his family today This isn’t about fixing grief. It’s about learning to live with it… and who you become because of it. Guest Mick Wienholt Host of When You Look podcast Connect with Mick 🌐 https://whenyoulook.com 📱 https://www.instagram.com/whenyoulookshow 🎧 Podcast: When You Look (Spotify, YouTube, Apple)
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