Episode 13: It's Okay to Be Calm

In this episode of Walking Close, Living Changed, Brian Opbroek explores a rarely discussed struggle: how to live in peace after the storm. Using the image of a sailor who can't relax after surviving rough seas, he explains how many people stay stuck in survival mode—expecting chaos even when life has calmed. While most teachings focus on trusting God during hardship, Brian shifts the focus to what comes after, reminding us it's okay to rest when the storm has passed. Drawing from real-life challenges and Acts 27–28, where Paul survives a storm and lands on Malta, Brian highlights a powerful lesson: peace is not laziness—it's restoration. Like Paul shaking off the snake, we're called to embrace calm without fear. He closes by emphasizing that peace is a gift from God—and learning to receive it is part of spiritual maturity.   Key Topics Discussed Hypervigilance and anticipatory anxiety after trauma The difficulty of embracing peace after hardship Trusting God not just during storms—but after them The symbolism of Malta as a "sweet place" of restoration Choosing calm even when it's challenged Letting go of fear that the storm will return Not allowing others' opinions to disrupt your peace The difference between rest and laziness Using seasons of calm for restoration and preparation Becoming a source of healing and hope for others   Relevant Scriptures Acts 27–28 – Paul's storm, shipwreck, and restoration on Malta Mark 4:35–41 – Jesus calming the storm Hebrews 4 – Entering God's rest Matthew 8:14–15 – Jesus heals Peter's mother-in-law Mark 16:18 – Protection from harm (referenced with the snake bite) James 1:17 – Every good and perfect gift comes from God 1 Kings 19 – Elijah's despair after victory Book of Jonah – Struggling to accept God's mercy after obedience Job (various passages) – Enduring others' opinions during suffering