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by Hiba Balfaqih
The Shadow Sessions is hosted by Hiba Balfaqih, an unconventional psychologist and trauma alchemist. We explore the stories that most people bury—particularly those tied to shame, trauma, and identity. Our goal is to shed light on the hidden corners of human experience, allowing listeners to hear stories that challenge societal norms and spark deep, introspective conversations.
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- 1 weeks ago56 min
My Husband Raped Me
Leaving an abusive relationship is rarely as simple as walking away. Sometimes the forces keeping someone trapped aren't fear alone—they're love, loyalty, children, and the hope of protecting the family they never had. In this episode of The Shadow Sessions, Hiba Balfaqih speaks with Kathleen, whose former husband was convicted in 2024 of rape and coercive control. After years of abuse, Kathleen waived her legal right to anonymity so that he could be publicly identified, choosing to tell her story in her own words. This conversation explores the psychology of coercive control and why survivors often remain in abusive relationships despite the harm they endure. It examines how childhood experiences, attachment, and deeply held values can be manipulated by an abusive partner, turning love and commitment into mechanisms of control. Rather than asking, "Why didn't she leave?" this episode asks a different question: "What made leaving so difficult?" Hiba and Kathleen unpack the hidden dynamics of psychological abuse, trauma bonding, and the lasting impact of living under coercive control. This episode is about understanding, accountability, and recognizing that abuse is not defined only by physical violence—but by the systematic erosion of autonomy, safety, and identity.
- 2 weeks ago11 min
He Could Kill Her So Why Did She Stay?
Some conversations don't end when the cameras stop rolling—they deserve to be unpacked. In this episode of The Notebook, Hiba Balfaqih reflects on her conversation with Annesa and explores the psychological patterns that emerged throughout the interview. Drawing from her expertise in human behavior and trauma, Hiba examines the psychology of love bombing, coercive control, and why intense relationships can so easily be mistaken for genuine love. She explores how cultural narratives, emotional conditioning, and attachment patterns can make controlling behaviors feel romantic rather than alarming. Rather than revisiting the details of Annesa's story, this episode focuses on understanding the hidden dynamics behind unhealthy relationships, emotional dependency, and manipulation. Hiba unpacks the subtle warning signs that are often overlooked, why people become vulnerable to coercive control, and how early experiences and societal messages shape our expectations of love. This episode offers a chance to look beneath the surface and better understand the difference between intensity and intimacy, control and care, and how recognizing these patterns is the first step toward building relationships grounded in safety, trust, and genuine connection.
- 3 weeks ago12 min
Phycologist Answers Your Questions
In this special Q&A episode of The Shadow Sessions, Hiba Balfaqih answers listener questions covering a wide range of topics. Rather than offering quick answers, Hiba approaches each question with curiosity, compassion, and psychological insight, helping listeners see their situations and the patterns that shape their lives in a new light. Whether you're looking for perspective, reassurance, or simply curious to hear the conversation, this episode offers an open and honest space where no question is too small and every answer is an opportunity to learn something new.
- Aug 20, 202617 min
The Abuser Was Never A Stranger
We've spent generations teaching children to fear strangers. But the evidence tells a different story. In this special reflection episode of The Shadow Sessions, Hiba Balfaqih revisits the stories of Aziza, Seth, Jazmine, and Sonny—four survivors whose experiences expose one of the most dangerous misconceptions about child sexual abuse: that the greatest threat comes from strangers. Instead, these conversations reveal a far more uncomfortable reality. Abuse is most often committed by someone a child knows, trusts, or has been taught to obey. Family members, caregivers, trusted adults, and people within a child's everyday world are far more likely to exploit access, familiarity, and silence than strangers hiding in the shadows. Hiba unpacks the psychology of grooming, why children rarely disclose abuse immediately, and how myths like "stranger danger" can leave families focused on the wrong risks. Rather than creating fear, this episode offers a framework for prevention—one rooted in body autonomy, open communication, critical thinking, and helping children understand that unsafe behavior can come from anyone, regardless of their relationship. This episode is not about creating suspicion. It's about replacing outdated narratives with evidence, empowering parents and caregivers with better conversations, and giving children the language to recognize unsafe behavior wherever it comes from.
- Aug 13, 202628 min
The Most Shocking Moments - Part 2
Some moments stay with you long after the conversation ends. In this special episode of The Shadow Sessions, Hiba Balfaqih revisits some of the most powerful and unforgettable moments from the series so far—stories of survival, betrayal, identity, trauma, accountability, and transformation. Part two brings together voices that challenged the way we understand abuse, violence, incarceration, extremism, addiction, and the systems that shape human behavior. These are not moments selected for shock alone. They reveal the patterns beneath the headlines: what happens to the nervous system under prolonged fear, how identity forms inside survival, and what it takes to reclaim agency after life has been altered. This episode is a reflection on the truths guests were brave enough to speak—and the questions their stories leave behind.
- Aug 5, 202621 min
The Most Shocking Moments
Some moments stay with you long after the conversation ends. In this special episode of The Shadow Sessions, Hiba Balfaqih revisits some of the most powerful and unforgettable moments from the series so far—stories of survival, betrayal, identity, trauma, accountability, and transformation. Part One brings together voices that challenged the way we understand abuse, violence, incarceration, extremism, addiction, and the systems that shape human behavior. These are not moments selected for shock alone. They reveal the patterns beneath the headlines: what happens to the nervous system under prolonged fear, how identity forms inside survival, and what it takes to reclaim agency after life has been altered. This episode is a reflection on the truths guests were brave enough to speak—and the questions their stories leave behind.
- Jul 30, 202614 min
When Your Mother Is The Danger
Some conversations don't end when the cameras stop rolling—they deserve to be unpacked. In this episode of The Notebook, Hiba Balfaqih reflects on her conversation with Jazmine and explores the psychological patterns that emerged throughout the interview. Drawing from her expertise in human behavior and trauma, Hiba examines the lasting effects of attachment trauma, the psychological impact of being harmed by the very person meant to provide safety, and how early betrayal shapes a child's understanding of love, trust, and self-worth. Rather than revisiting the details of Jazmine's story, this episode focuses on understanding the hidden dynamics behind childhood trauma, emotional conditioning, and survival. Hiba offers her insights into the long-term behavioral patterns that can emerge from growing up in an unsafe environment and explores what it takes to rebuild a sense of identity and security after profound betrayal. This episode is an opportunity to look beneath the surface and better understand how early relationships shape our lives—and how healing begins when we recognize those patterns, reclaim our sense of self, and learn to create safety from within.
- Jul 23, 20261h 4m
The Story Her Kidnapper Never Wanted Told
How do you respond when your life changes in a matter of seconds? In this episode of The Shadow Sessions, Hiba Balfaqih speaks with Allison Smith, whose ordinary trip to a convenience store became a fight for survival when an armed woman hijacked her car. In those terrifying moments, Allison experienced what so many trauma survivors describe: first freezing, then fawning, and ultimately finding the strength to fight back. But surviving the attack was only the beginning. This conversation goes beyond violent crime. It explores the psychology of survival, why our instincts don't always look the way we expect, and the emotional aftermath that follows once the immediate danger has passed. Allison shares what it means to live with trauma, reclaim her voice, and rebuild a sense of safety after experiencing the unimaginable. This episode is about survival instincts, trauma recovery, resilience, and discovering that healing begins long after the moment you survive.
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The Shadow Sessions is hosted by Hiba Balfaqih, an unconventional psychologist and trauma alchemist. We explore the stories that most people bury—particularly those tied to shame, trauma, and identity. Our goal is to shed light on the hidden corners of human experience, allowing listeners to hear stories that challenge societal norms and spark deep, introspective conversations.
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