
Everyone talks about authenticity, and there's even a lot of shame for not "being real." But when you come from abuse and/or emotionally immature parents, it's actually really complicated to know how to be authentic. People-pleasing, fawning, emotional shutdown, freeze, and other trauma responses (often results of CPTSD) prevent us from even knowing how we feel, much less being able to express it. In this episode, licensed therapist Carli Kilbourne joins the pod to talk about how we get back to what's true for US.Want to work with Remy? Go here.Email: patraumaparty@gmail.comFind us on:InstagramTikTokThe contents of this podcast are provided for informational purposes only. None of the material presented is intended to be a substitute for psychotherapy, counseling, professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you need to speak with a professional, you can find one local to you and reach out directly, or, in the US, you can call 988 to connect with the Suicide & Crisis Hotline.
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106 - Irish Goodbye

105 - Decision Paralysis + Decision Fatigue - If making a choice is your personal hell, there's probably a lot more going on. Let's find solutions.

104 - That Self-Doubt Struggle - Low confidence, big shame, negative self-talk—let's switch it up, baby.

103 - Not Feeling Chosen - Feeling unwanted, unseen, or not valued in childhood is so painful—let's get you healing, hunny.
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