16 | Who Am I Without Him? Journey Back to Yourself

Who am I when I’m not managing someone else’s moods? Who am I when I’m not bracing for the explosion, calculating the cost of my resistance, or shrinking myself to keep the peace? In this raw and deeply honest episode of The Messy Middle, I’m diving into one of the most disorienting questions we face after narcissistic abuse and coercive control: Who am I without him? This isn’t just about being single. It’s about identity loss after emotional abuse. It’s about what happens to your nervous sy...