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The Hidden Stress Behind Your Hormone Imbalance | Dr. Sue Morter

October 8, 2026·53 min
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A divorce. A layoff. A season where you held everything together for everyone. Your body flipped into fight or flight to protect you, exactly the way it was built to. But what happens when the stress passes and your nervous system never gets the message? Bioenergetic medicine expert Dr. Sue Morter, author of The Energy Codes and The Anatomy of Awakening, explains the hidden stress your body can keep carrying for years. She shows how that old emergency ripples through your adrenals, your thyroid, and your hormones in midlife. Then she walks me through her first two steps. The wise belly breath, which helps engage the calming side of your nervous system. And pratyahara, an ancient practice for calling your energy back from the people and situations that drain you. Dr. Sue and I also get into what releasing anger means (hint, it's not dumping it on someone), how to work with a feeling without needing the whole story, and why meditation can feel impossible at first. If you've been doing everything right and still feel wired, tired, and on edge, Gorgeous, this one is for you. Key takeaways Your nervous system can stay locked in fight or flight long after a stressful event ends, because it never received the signal that the danger passed. That hidden stress keeps your adrenals pumping out cortisol, and Dr. Sue describes the thyroid stepping in to compensate until your whole hormonal system starts to roller-coaster. Your body works on a priority basis, so survival comes before repair, detox, and renewal. A slow belly breath, low first and then rising into the chest, is Dr. Sue's simplest first step for telling your body the coast is clear. Pratyahara means drawing your senses back onto yourself, so you can stay in a hard conversation without handing over your energy. Releasing anger means feeling and moving the energy in your body, not unloading it on someone else. If meditation feels impossible, build body awareness first so stillness becomes easier. Key Timestamps 01:00 Growing up with a pioneer of energy medicine 03:05 Root cause versus symptom care 05:00 The hidden stress keeping you in fight or flight 06:15 The trap door between the thalamus and hypothalamus 09:25 Step one, the belly breath 13:15 Why your belly is wise 14:15 The doorway exercise 18:20 What if you're the one who triggers someone 26:15 The two systems that run your body 31:30 What releasing anger means 40:00 When meditation feels impossible 42:30 Take it to the body practices   Memorable quotes "It's doing the right thing, but it's doing it at the wrong time." Dr. Sue Morter "Work with the energy instead of the label, work with the energy instead of the story." Dr. Sue Morter "We are the CEO of our body, and the best years of our lives are not behind us. They are waiting for us." Dr. Anna Cabeca Resources mentioned The Energy Codes by Dr. Sue Morter The Anatomy of Awakening by Dr. Sue Morter Dr. Sue's courses and classes at drsuemorter.com </l

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