The Death Readiness Podcast: Not your dad’s estate planning podcast

Why You Shouldn't Add Your Child to Your Deed or Bank Account

August 4, 2026·19 min
Episode Description from the Publisher

Should you add your child to your deed or bank account? It sounds like a simple way to avoid probate or make things easier if you need help later in life. But that estate planning shortcut can create risks you never intended, from exposing your home to your child's creditors to accidentally changing how your estate is distributed. In this episode, estate planning attorney Jill Mastroianni explains why the first question should never be, "What's the solution?" Instead, it should be, "What problem are you actually trying to solve?" Once you know the problem, you can choose the right estate planning tool. What You’ll Learn in This Episode Why adding your child to your deed or bank account can create unintended legal and financial risks  The one question you should ask before making any estate planning decision  When avoiding probate actually makes sense, and when it doesn't  How revocable trusts help avoid probate while also planning for incapacity  The advantages and limitations of ladybird or transfer-on-death (TOD) deeds in estate planning  Why naming multiple TOD beneficiaries can produce surprising results  How payable-on-death (POD) and transfer-on-death (TOD) bank account designations work  Why your estate may still need liquid assets even if you've mostly avoided probate  How financial powers of attorney differ from joint ownership in estate planning Why healthcare powers of attorney and advance directives are essential parts of a complete estate plan Resources & Links Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/3tlGkQk1Sac Episode 19: Why You Need (or Don’t Need) a Trust: https://www.deathreadiness.com/podcast/episode-19-how-to-know-if-you-need-a-trust Episode 36: When Transfer-on-Death Deeds Promise to Avoid Probate but Create Chaos: https://www.deathreadiness.com/podcast/when-transferondeath-deeds-promise-to-avoid-probate-but-create-chaos Episode 68: Why Good Powers of Attorney Still Fail: https://www.deathreadiness.com/podcast/68 State-specific healthcare powers of attorney: https://www.caringinfo.org/planning/advance-directives/by-state/ Tennessee estate planning: https://www.deathreadiness.com/estate-planning-solution Connect with Jill: Website: DeathReadiness.com Email: jill@deathreadiness.com Learn more about Jill’s solutions Subscribe to the Death Readiness Dispatch! Ask a question for Tuesday Triage Did you enjoy this episode? Share it with someone you care about. This podcast provides estate planning guidance for women and discusses real, practical issues, from caregiving, pre-planning a funeral, how to avoid probate using beneficiary designations, planning for individuals with special needs (and special needs trusts), whether you need a professional fiduciary (trustee or executor), how the estate tax works and how to preserve your legacy. Tuesday Triage episodes answer questions from listeners like you, from powers of attorney, healthcare advance directives (and whether they work when you’re pregnant), what a Last Will and Testament really is, whether you need a trust, how Medicaid works and how to have senior and elder care conversations and how to care for aging parents. Disclaimer: This podcast and all related content are for educational purposes only and do not constitute legal advice. No attorney-client relationship is established here. Use of this information without careful analysis and review by your attorney, CPA, and/or financial advisor may cause serious adverse consequences. For legal guidance tailored to your unique situation, consult with a licensed attorney in your state. 

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