So Money with Farnoosh Torabi

2010: Ask Farnoosh: What Annoys Me Most About Money? (Plus: Disability Insurance and Long-Term Care 101)

July 17, 2026·32 min
Episode Description from the Publisher

On this week's Ask Farnoosh Friday, we're tackling five thoughtful listener questions that touch on everything from career transitions and combining finances as a couple to insurance, retirement accounts, and planning for the future.Before we dive into the mailbag, I also share a few headlines that caught my attention this week—including a fascinating new trend in prenups designed to protect stay-at-home parents, California's latest move to make personal finance a graduation requirement, and a New York Times article about the money frustrations that seem uniquely American (plus a few of my own!). And yes...So Money is officially on YouTube.In this episode:Why you shouldn't feel guilty quietly job hunting before you have an offerThe best way to leave an employer professionally while protecting your own careerHow couples can combine finances without sacrificing independenceWhy "fair" doesn't always mean splitting expenses 50/50My favorite three-account system for couplesThe insurance policies every young professional should prioritize—and which ones can probably waitWhy your ability to earn an income may be your greatest financial assetWhen to start thinking seriously about long-term care insuranceHow to prepare for future caregiving conversations with your parentsWhat to do with an old, empty 401(k) account after your employer changes retirement providersWhy cybersecurity deserves a place in every annual financial checkupAlso in the news:A new prenup trend: More couples are adding "leave the workforce" clauses to protect spouses who pause their careers to raise children or provide care, recognizing the real financial cost of unpaid caregiving.Money annoyances in America: Inspired by a New York Times article from Ron Lieber and Tara Siegel Bernard, I share my own biggest financial pet peeves—from managing kids' allowance to credit card surcharges and New Jersey property taxes.Financial literacy gains momentum: California becomes the 26th state to require a standalone personal finance course for high school graduation, signaling a major shift in how we prepare young people for adulthood.Resources & MentionsSo Money is now on YouTubeColumbia Journalism Review's feature on The Montclair PodWall Street Journal reporting on caregiving clauses in prenupsNew York Times article: "6 Things That Drive Us Crazy About Money in America" by Ron Lieber and Tara Siegel BernardHave a question for the show?Send your question for a future Ask Farnoosh Friday! If it's on your mind, chances are thousands of other listeners are wondering the same thing. You can email me, leave a voicemail, or connect with me on Instagram.If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend. It helps more people discover the show—and build richer, more confident financial lives.Learn more about Farnoosh's upcoming literary workshop Book to Brand. Early bird registration is now open! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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