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by Kimberly Carter
In Relatively Stable we delve into the journeys of those who have faced challenges, uncovered their passions, and discovered resilience along the way. Whether you're here for the stories, seeking inspiration, or simply drawn to the wisdom we glean from horses—and life—you’re in the right place. Let’s dive into the narratives that remind us how to stay relatively stable, no matter what comes our way. stableroots.substack.com
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- Yesterday18 min
I Didn’t Expect to Fall in Love with a Chicken
I Did Not Expect to Fall in Love with a ChickenStable Roots | Audio EditionWhat do a dying chicken, a fountain pen, a small funeral, and an alarming amount of stationery have in common? Apparently, my nervous system.This week in Stable Roots, I'm writing about the ways grief announces itself before we even know what we're grieving, the unexpected heartbreak of loving a tiny Silkie chicken, and the holiness of dawn when you've spent the night tending a sick animal.There's also a nine-year-old with a better understanding of mortality than most adults, a dearly departed chicken whisperer whose ghost I suspect is still hanging around, and the unfortunate timing of learning that Christopher will be away for most of November.Somewhere in the middle of all this, I've rediscovered the pleasure of writing by hand after bilateral carpal tunnel surgery, developed a rather expensive stationery habit, and begun wondering whether it's finally time to write the book I quit my real jobs to write nearly thirty years ago.It's a story about love, anticipatory grief, the things we cannot save, and the peculiar ways we find ourselves again.And yes, I would like to know what kind of pen you use.Read and subscribe to Stable Roots:https://stableroots.substack.comWritten and narrated by Kim Carter from Lavender Hill Farm, home of Bramblewood Stables in Simpsonville, South Carolina. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit stableroots.substack.com/subscribe
- 1 weeks ago22 min
Oxytocin Has Entered the Chat
Oxytocin Has Entered the Chat: Dopamine Is So YesterdayWhat happens when you've spent most of your life preparing for danger and suddenly find yourself somewhere you feel safe?This week in Stable Roots, I'm exploring the biology of belonging, the role of oxytocin in our relationships with horses and humans, and how our brains can learn new ways of experiencing the world. I'm sharing the terrible advice that helped inspire Bramblewood, a memorable lesson from Rupert Isaacson's visit to the farm, and why emotional safety deserves as much attention as physical safety.I'm also looking back at three very different Halloweens, from a time when I wondered whether I'd ever feel well again to an evening at Lavender Hill filled with ridiculous horse costumes, old friends, laughter, and a sweetness I'm finally learning to trust.After decades of fighting for the life I wanted, I'm beginning to ask a different question: What happens when I don't have to fight anymore?Perhaps it's time to put dopamine in the back seat and embrace the cozy.Read or listen to the full essay at Stable Roots. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit stableroots.substack.com/subscribe
- 3 weeks ago19 min
It’s Just Anxiety, Darling
What happens when we become so good at tolerating discomfort that nobody notices we're suffering?After three years of being told the numbness in my hands was anxiety, a nerve conduction study revealed severe damage that required surgery on both hands. Along the way, I encountered some rather strong opinions from my longtime shavings delivery guys, an unexpected lesson in the effects of epinephrine, and the realization that we're super glad to tell others how we're feeling without taking a good look at ourselves.In this episode of Relatively Stable, I explore the uncomfortable similarities between the way we treat human pain and the way we interpret horses. We admire endurance, reward cooperation, and often mistake our ability to compensate for evidence that nothing is wrong.Maybe the more important question isn't how much pressure a horse can tolerate, but why we're asking it to tolerate that pressure at all.Read the accompanying essay at Stable Roots.Love,Kim This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit stableroots.substack.com/subscribe
- Oct 1, 202626 min
Hope Always Goes Clean
What happens when you find an old version of yourself in a box of dusty photographs, and realize you don’t miss her, but you’re awfully glad somebody took her picture?This week in Stable Roots, I’m turning a forgotten little building at Lavender Hill into a home for thirty years of Bramblewood Stable's history. Along the way, I’m thinking about the power of photographs, the people and horses who make us who we are, and what it means to look honestly at the life behind you without either wishing it away or wanting it back.And it all comes down to four words given to me by a reader: Hope always goes clean.For most of my life, “going clean” meant getting a horse around a jumping course without dropping a rail. These days, I have a very different idea of what constitutes a successful round.Written and read by Kim Carter for Stable Roots, from Bramblewood Stables at Lavender Hill Farm, Simpsonville, SC This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit stableroots.substack.com/subscribe
- Sep 24, 202628 min
Practical Farm Magic
What if Lot’s wife had OCD?My mother has been asking this question for a long time. Maybe Lot's wife wasn't longing for Sodom. Maybe she was simply halfway down the road when she thought: Wait. Did I turn off the stove?This week in Stable Roots, I’m taking you with me while I close the farm at night: a ritual of cats and chickens, old horses and water buckets, gates checked and checked again, and one long walk toward the Secret Meadow where something is moving through the dark Appalachian woods.From there, we wander into the stranger territory of obsessive-compulsive disorder: the miserable little feedback loop that makes checking feel like safety, the usefulness of a hypervigilant brain when you manage a farm, and the line between responsibility and the impossible pursuit of certainty.And then, naturally, we get to witchcraft.Because after you’ve checked a gate you already know is closed five more times, you may have to admit you’re no longer practicing farm management. You’re bargaining with the universe.A story about OCD, ritual, intention, Appalachian haints, practical farm magic, and learning to trust what you’ve already done.And if I ever do look back one too many times and turn into a pillar of salt, at least the horses will know what to do with me.Love,Kim This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit stableroots.substack.com/subscribe
- Sep 17, 202623 min
Mane Character Energy
It took a quarter million words to let the horses tell their own stories.This week in Stable Roots, I’m talking about what happened when I accidentally stopped writing around the horses and started writing about them.It began with a conversation about horse shows, a Facebook post I mostly forgot about while mowing and listening to Demon Copperhead, and a phone that would not stop dinging. Then I started telling the individual stories of the horses at Bramblewood—Penny, Max, Hero, Pepper, Moose—and something unexpected happened.People started bringing me their horses.Not literally, thank God. I have enough feed bills.They brought them into the comments: ancient geldings, complicated mares, childhood ponies, horses they lost thirty years ago and still talk about in the present tense.After three years and roughly a quarter million words of Stable Roots, I realized I’ve spent an awful lot of time writing about what horses teach us and not nearly enough time simply telling you who they are.Maybe not every horse needs to be a metaphor. Maybe they don’t need to teach us, heal us, win something, or accomplish anything extraordinary to deserve a story.Maybe sometimes the story is simply: You should know this horse.All this time, I’ve been living in a pasture filled with main characters.Also this week: apparently Books at the Barn—our program where introverts sit quietly in a barn aisle and read—is giving insurance underwriters pause. Giant horses? Tractors? Electric fences? Fine. Books? Apparently dangerous.Welcome to farm life.Join me at Stable Roots where I bring you stories from the farm every Thursday morning. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit stableroots.substack.com/subscribe
- Sep 10, 202628 min
Julian Thinks the Barn Is Stupid
What’s the difference between being in control and being controlling?This week in Stable Roots, I’m thinking about all the ways I’ve confused the two — from spending four hours trying to convince Max to get on a horse trailer, to watching well-meaning humans become complete doormats in the name of giving horses a voice, to one very opinionated chestnut gelding who spent an entire thunderstorm explaining exactly what he thought about being put in a stall.We’ll talk about consent-based horsemanship, horse training, groundwork, boundaries, and what it really means to listen when a horse says no — without assuming that respecting another creature requires us to surrender our own voice.But, as usual, Stable Roots isn’t really just about horses. The horses simply give us a place to practice the things that are harder to see in ourselves. How do we listen without disappearing? Hold a boundary without needing someone else to agree with it? Change our minds without feeling like we’ve lost? And stay grounded when another person — or horse — sees things very differently?Maybe being in control was never about getting the horse on the trailer, winning the argument, or arranging the world into the ending we’ve already decided upon.Maybe it’s knowing what belongs to us — our reactions, our boundaries, our choices — and becoming a little more comfortable with everyone else having an opinion about them. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit stableroots.substack.com/subscribe
- Sep 3, 202630 min
The Four Seasons
The Four Seasons: An almanac for those who are emotionally dependent on mowing grassKim has a problem.Summer isn’t even over yet, and she’s already worried about what will happen when the grass stops growing.After one full trip through the seasons at Lavender Hill, mowing has become more than another farm chore. It’s three uninterrupted hours on a machine, moving slowly enough to notice things, loudly enough that nobody can talk to her, and leaving behind the deeply satisfying evidence that something has been accomplished.So what happens when winter takes that away?This week, Kim creates her own slightly unhinged almanac for the year ahead: winter rye grass, mulched leaves, soil biology, forest paths, a deeply justifiable need for a PTO wood chipper, and eventually, the glorious resurrection of the grass in spring.Along the way, The Four Seasons wanders into bigger territory: the difference between owning land and knowing it, our human compulsion to improve and control the natural world, and why a farm may be one of the best places in the world to avoid writing.Twenty-seven years ago, Kim quit her real jobs to write a book and promptly discovered a thousand jobs that needed doing around a barn instead.Maybe she wasn’t procrastinating after all.Maybe she was taking field notes.In this episode: winter rye grass and the journey of a bag of seed; why mowing leaves can feed the soil; the Four Season Tractor Avoidance Program™; learning the bones of the land in winter; the ecological case Kim has constructed for buying a wood chipper; why mowing has become a spiritual practice; and what 27 years of barn chores have taught her about writing, paying attention, and the work we think we’re avoiding.Read Stable Roots for the original essay, photographs from Lavender Hill, and the weekly subscriber video that takes readers beyond the page and behind the fences. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit stableroots.substack.com/subscribe
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