From Harder Than Life to Happier Than Life | Kelly Siegel on REAL Mentors Podcast EP 100

Kelly Siegel already wrote the book on grinding through pain. Harder Than Life was the story of weaponizing poverty, abuse and addiction to build a successful company. Then he got to the top of that mountain, made the money and realized he still was not fulfilled. That is when the real work began.In this episode Kelly comes back to the REAL Mentors Podcast for a second time and goes deeper than he has ever gone publicly. He talks about the three beliefs that ran on repeat in his head for most of his life — unworthiness, unlovable and death — and what it actually took to rewire them. He gets into doing mirror work alone during the pandemic, couples therapy with his wife and finally learning how to listen instead of just solve. He talks about the difference between acts of service that come from love and acts of service that come from fear of not being safe if everyone is not happy.This is not a conversation about grinding harder. This is a conversation about what comes after the grind and why getting to the second mountain is the hardest climb of all.This Episode Explores:✅ Why scaling your business starts with your willingness to heal yourself first✅ The three beliefs that ran on repeat: unworthiness, unlovable and death✅ Five minutes of mirror work every day during the pandemic and what it actually did for him✅ The difference between Harder Than Life and his new book Happier Than Life and why they are polar opposites✅ Why people stay in comfortable misery instead of facing the unknown to live their dreams✅ What wiring for chaos looks like in business and in relationships and how to recognize it in yourself✅ Going to couples therapy as a fully healed version of himself and finally hearing what the therapist was saying✅ Why showing up and providing is not the same thing as making someone feel seen and heard✅ The second mountain is getting to the top financially and realizing success still does not taste the way you thought it would✅ Why manifestation without action is just a dream and presence without doing is not the answer either🔗 Connect with Kelly SiegelInstagram: @kelly.siegel.71YouTube: youtube.com/@harderthanlifeWebsite: harderthanlife.comBooks: Harder Than Life and Happier Than LifeFollow REAL Mentors PodcastInstagram: https://instagram.com/realmentorspodcastHost Sean Martin: https://instagram.com/theseanmartin