Having Sex or Performing It: Pleasure, Body Image & Sex Trends (ft. Jill Lissner)

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with sex educator Jill Lissner, aka @sexedprincesss, forconversation about performative sex, pleasure, body image, consent, communication, and the weird sex trends taking over the internet.Topics covered:Performative sex and what it meansPleasure vs. performanceAuthentic/non-performative sexGendered expectations around appearancePenis size, erections and staminaMoaning and performing soundsStaying quiet because of shame or expectationsSoft penises and body acceptanceDecentering penetrationMutual masturbation and vulnerabilityPorn as a performanceBeing perceived and worrying how you lookLikeability, acceptance and social performanceReducing performance anxiety through exposure“Spectatoring” during sexAdvocating for your needs during sexDefaulting to giving as a performancePreference vs. performanceOrgasm faces“Cracked” and modern sexual terminologyActive participation in sexRiding/on-top positions and performing for appearanceRecording sexual experiencesPenetration as a performance expectationCritical thinking about sexual normsInternet sex trendsBall maxing/scrotum maxingScrotum size and attractionHow sexual trends spread onlineThe need for more scientific research on emerging sex trendsFollow Jill:Instagram: @sexedprincesssFollow Alexa Andre:Instagram: @sexwithalexaPatreon: https://patreon.com/sexwithalexa