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Imperfect Love

Coming Together: Tips for Turning Conflict into Connection

April 24, 2026·51 min
Episode Description from the Publisher

Are you conflict avoidant? Do you find it tough to face difficult conversations? Are you filled with anxiety when it's time to talk to certain people about your thoughts or feelings? As a clinical psychologist, I've learned that many people struggle with communication, especially when it comes to discussing challenging topics with romantic partners, friends, or family members. Yet when you learn to face conflict and other relational issues with emotional intelligence, you and your relationships can actually get stronger. Today's expert, Dr. David Zierk, will walk us through the intricate journey of how to deepen your relationships by turning conflict into connection.&nbsp;Topics discussed include emotional intelligence, conflict, fighting, conflict resolution skills, vulnerability, shutting down, stonewalling, insecurity, trauma, childhood trauma, habituation, conditioning, beliefs, mindset, marriage, divorce, validation, self-reflection, relational intelligence, romantic partner, friend, family, family dynamics, family patterns.&nbsp;Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.&nbsp;Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information: https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/and https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationships&nbsp;IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanlyLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_love" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color

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