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by Francie Winslow
An honest space for female flourishing. Together we'll explore sexuality and spirituality by God's design, healing our relationship with pleasure, our bodies, and our identity as image-bearers. Let's take a deep breath and step into God's invitation to live fully alive—mind, body, and spirit.
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- 6 days ago17 min
277. Can I Be a Christian and Be Sexual? (A Letter from a Gen Z Woman)
"Scary, dirty, and terrifying." That's how one 19-year-old described sex. Maybe some part of you still feels the same. So many of us grew up believing spirituality and sexuality live in separate camps, like two channels where one has to be off for the other to be on. Whether you're 19 or 90, the question underneath is the same: can I really love God and be fully alive in my body? This week, Francie reads a letter from a college-aged listener who went from feeling disturbed by her own anatomy to genuinely excited about God's design. What shifted her? It started with one simple sentence from her mom. Through this young woman's story, Francie unpacks the three pillars at the heart of her teaching, and why the path from shame to joy is open to every generation, including yours. In this episode: What disgust and shutdown might be trying to tell you The three pillars that move us from fragmentation to wholeness Why you don't have to be in a sexual relationship to be fully alive Moms, aunties, and mentors: why your voice matters more than you think Ready to go deeper right now? Back to the Garden is the guide I wrote for exactly where you are — a married woman's guide to pleasure by design. It's the most honest thing I've put together, and at $18 it's the easiest yes you'll make this week. → here Don't want to walk this out alone? The Circle is where I show up consistently: a group of women from all over the world praying, asking honest questions, and finding healing together. We talk throughout the week on Voxer and gather on Zoom once a month. There's a place for you here. → here
- 1 weeks ago15 min
276. Fight for Intimacy with Intimacy: When Your Marriage Feels Stuck
When you're missing each other, everything in you wants to pull back. What if the way through is to lean in? When pain builds up in a marriage, self-protection feels like the safest move. But Francie has learned that in seasons of discouragement and opposition, the answer is often the opposite: fight for intimacy with intimacy. Following up on last week's conversation about the battle for union, Francie shares how she and her husband have been fighting for their marriage in one of the hardest seasons of their 20 years together. Some of it is prayer, including a truth about spiritual authority in marriage that gave her new confidence. Some of it is surprisingly simple and tender. If you feel stuck, this is your invitation to stop waiting for things to get easier and start showing up in a different spirit. In this episode: Why no one has more authority to pray for your spouse than you What it looks like to bless your husband's body Non-pressure ways to stay close when you have nothing left to give The 30-second habit that gets connection flowing again A blessing you can pray over your spouse tonight Resources mentioned: Last week's episode: Naked and Unashamed: The Battle for Intimacy in Your Marriage The Wild at Heart app (John Eldredge) for set prayers The Circle, where Francie has taught on "plugging in" Ready to go deeper right now? Back to the Garden is the guide I wrote for exactly where you are — a married woman's guide to pleasure by design. It's a really good place to start and at $18 it's the easiest yes you'll make this week. → here Don't want to walk this out alone? The Circle is where I show up consistently: a group of women from all over the world praying, asking honest questions, and finding healing together. We talk throughout the week on Voxer and gather on Zoom once a month. There's a place for you here. → here
- 2 weeks ago24 min
275. Naked and Unashamed: The Battle for Intimacy in Your Marriage
There's a bigger story happening in your marriage than the one you can see. In the garden, God's design for a husband and wife was naked and unashamed: fully seen, fully vulnerable, fully loved. But we don't live in the garden anymore. We live in a battle. If intimacy has felt heavy lately, if distance or old shame has crept back in without explanation, Francie wants you to know there may be more going on than meets the eye. In this episode, she shares what a recent season of opposition taught her about why union is worth fighting for, and how to fight for it. You will be encouraged with biblical teaching and prayer for fresh revelation, healing, and transformation as we know God more. In this episode: What the garden reveals about vulnerability and healing Why the enemy works so hard against union The surprising response to heaviness in your sex life A prayer for your body, your desire, and your oneness Ready to go deeper right now? Back to the Garden is the guide I wrote for exactly where you are — a married woman's guide to pleasure by design. It's the most honest thing I've put together, and at $18 it's the easiest yes you'll make this week. → here Don't want to walk this out alone? The Circle is where Francie shows up consistently: a group of women from all over the world praying, asking honest questions, and finding healing together. If you've been longing for women who share your values and want to grow in this area too, there's a place for you here. → here
- Sep 28, 202619 min
274. Planning a Sexcation: Practical Tips for Every Season of Life
This week, Francie takes a fun departure from the current series to talk about an idea that's become a real rhythm in her own marriage and resonated with listeners ever since she started sharing it: how to plan a sexcation. Whether you have a full week and a real travel budget, or you can't get five feet past your front door right now because life is life, Francie walks through a full spectrum of options — starting small and building up. She shares the origin story of her and Wyatt's "hotel dates" (born out of COVID lockdowns), why a 24-hour local Airbnb might be the sweet spot for couples with limited time or budget, and what a 48-hour-or-longer getaway can open up for a couple with more margin. Along the way, she gets practical about food, screens, conversation starters, and the small things — a feather, new lingerie, a watercolor set — that build anticipation and connection. She closes with an honest word about what to do when the trip doesn't go as planned. In This Episode: Why you don't need a big trip to have a meaningful getaway — start small and build from there Hotel dates: the COVID-era habit that became a lasting rhythm in Francie and Wyatt's marriage Why a 24-hour local Airbnb offers a different (and often better) kind of privacy than a hotel What changes when you have 48 hours or more: new hormones, new experiences, new memories Practical tips for food, screens, conversation starters, and building anticipation What to do when life interrupts the trip you planned Ready to go deeper right now? Back to the Garden is the guide I wrote for exactly where you are — a married woman's guide to pleasure by design. It's the most honest thing I've put together, and at $18 it's the easiest yes you'll make this week. → here Questions? Find me on Instagram or at franciewinslow.com
- Sep 21, 202623 min
Ep. 273. Celebrating Masculine Strength (Part 2): The Gaze, the Time, and the Words That Heal a Marriage
Francie continues her celebration of holy masculine strength — and this week, she gets specific. Masculine strength "used well," she says, isn't about domination or performance; it's strength channeled toward self-giving love, the kind Ephesians 5 calls husbands to. Francie unpacks three concrete ways her husband Wyatt's strength has healed her heart and body over 21+ years of marriage: his disciplined gaze (and what it's meant that his eyes are for her, not a scroll), his willingness to become a curious student of her body and design instead of assuming he already knew it, and the intentional, unhurried way he creates safety in their intimate life — what he calls "the pace of my pleasure." She closes with a tender word on the power of words: how careless ones wound, and how measured, honoring ones can heal decades of body shame. In This Episode: What "masculine strength used well" actually means — and why it's the opposite of domination The gift of a disciplined gaze, and how it healed Francie's fear of being compared How Wyatt became a "student" of Francie's body — and why the curiosity mattered more than expertise Spontaneous intimacy vs. intentional, unhurried intimacy ("the pace of my pleasure") How words — in conflict and in the bedroom — can wound or heal A closing charge to the husbands showing up, imperfectly, anyway Ready to go deeper right now? Back to the Garden is the guide I wrote for exactly where you are — a married woman's guide to pleasure by design. It's the most honest thing I've put together, and at $18 it's the easiest yes you'll make this week. → here Questions? Find me on Instagram or at franciewinslow.com
- Sep 14, 202619 min
Ep 272. Celebrating Masculine Strength (Part 1): A Wife Was Made to Receive
Francie's back from a summer away — and she's kicking off a new mini-series on something our culture rarely celebrates: holy masculine strength. After a clip about honoring husbands went semi-viral this summer (and pulled in a wave of new male listeners), Francie felt the nudge to open this conversation to husbands too — not just wives. In this episode, she lays the theological groundwork, starting with the Hebrew word tov me'od ("very good") — the phrase God used only once He'd created both male and female. Then she gets honest about female design itself: more nerve endings, more erogenous zones, more built-in capacity for pleasure than most of us were ever taught to expect. So why do so many of us walk into the bedroom already in to-do-list mode? Francie also shares candidly about seasons in her own 21-year marriage marked by shame, numbness, and disconnection — and introduces the three-part framework she'll spend the rest of the series unpacking: how her husband Wyatt's strength has helped her feel seen, safe, and celebrated. In This Episode: Why Francie is dedicating a series to celebrating masculine strength — and inviting husbands to listen in The Hebrew word tov me'od and what it means that God called male AND female "very good" The design of female pleasure: nerve endings, erogenous zones, and the shift from "doing" to "receiving" Francie's own story of numbness and healing, 21 years into marriage A first look at the framework: seen, safe, celebrated Ready to go deeper right now? Back to the Garden is the guide I wrote for exactly where you are — a married woman's guide to pleasure by design. It's the most honest thing I've put together, and at $18 it's the easiest yes you'll make this week. → here Questions? Find me on Instagram or at franciewinslow.com
- Jul 13, 202624 min
Ep. 271 Female Orgasm: What You Were Never Taught
This is the episode I wish someone had offered me years ago. We grew up in a culture that was simultaneously saturated with sexuality and almost completely silent about women's actual experience of it. And for those of us who wanted to stay honorable in our searching, we often didn't know where to turn. So this episode is a warm, clear, shame-free conversation about female anatomy, how your body was designed to experience pleasure, and what you actually need to know to have a genuinely good intimate life. I'm sharing it from the same place I share everything — as a woman on a journey, who loves God and loves women, and believes deeply that understanding your design is an act of worship. A few things in this episode that I hope bring you relief and wonder: Women have over 10,000 nerve endings in the clitoris — more than double what men have. God didn't design that by accident. It tells us something about his heart for women's pleasure. The clitoris wasn't fully studied in medical research until 2022. If you feel undereducated about your own body, that's not your fault. Most women don't reach orgasm through penetration alone — and that is completely normal. Understanding your body and how it works changes everything. Your body takes an average of 20 minutes to become fully aroused — and everything we've talked about in this series about slowing down, becoming present, and waking up to sensation is exactly what prepares you for that. We also walk through three types of orgasm — vaginal, clitoral, and cervical — gently and practically, with the same spirit that has carried this whole series. Tov Meod. Very good. That is God's word over your body, your femininity, and your capacity for pleasure. This episode is an invitation to receive that as true. A few key terms defined in this episode: Clitoral stimulation — direct touch or sensation to the clitoris, one of the primary pathways to orgasm for most women. Arousal — your body's physical response to intimacy, which for women takes time, safety, and presence to fully develop. Cervical orgasm — a deep, full-body experience connected to the vagus nerve, described by many women as transcendent and deeply releasing. Ready to go deeper right now? Back to the Garden is the guide I wrote for exactly where you are — a married woman's guide to pleasure by design. It's the most honest thing I've put together, and at $18 it's the easiest yes you'll make this week. → here Questions? Find me on Instagram or at franciewinslow.com
- Jul 6, 202627 min
Ep. 270 Small Daily Habits That Wake Up Your Pleasure
Female flourishing doesn't start in the bedroom. It starts in the kitchen. In the shower. At a stoplight. In five minutes on your front porch listening to birds. That might sound surprising — but it's one of the most freeing things I've discovered on this journey. The capacity to feel pleasure, connection, and aliveness in intimacy is directly connected to how present you are in your body throughout the rest of your day. And most of us, if we're honest, have spent years going the other direction. We rush through showers without feeling the water. We eat while scrolling. We move through our days completely in our heads — making lists, managing everything, pushing through — without ever stopping to notice what our bodies are actually experiencing. That's what I mean by disembodiment. And it's more common than you think. The beautiful thing is that coming back doesn't require a retreat or a dramatic overhaul. It starts with small things. Noticing the texture of a warm mug in your hands. Rolling essential oil between your palms and actually smelling it. Letting your spine sway for thirty seconds in the kitchen. Washing your hair just a little more slowly. These are what I call pleasure practices — small, intentional moments of sensory awareness that help your nervous system settle, your body come online, and your capacity to feel grow. They're not about sexuality. They're about being awake to your own life. And over time, that aliveness translates into everything — including your marriage. A few key terms defined in this episode: Pleasure practices — small daily habits that engage your five senses and help you stay present in your body throughout the day. Nervous system regulation — gently helping your body shift out of stress or shutdown so it can feel safe, open, and present. Nonlinear movement — free, flowing movement (like swaying or rolling your spine) that releases tension and helps your body feel safe and open. This one is full of things you can try today. Come take a slow breath with me. Ready to go deeper right now? Back to the Garden is the guide I wrote for exactly where you are — a married woman's guide to pleasure by design. It's the most honest thing I've put together, and at $18 it's the easiest yes you'll make this week. → here Questions? Find me on Instagram or at franciewinslow.com
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An honest space for female flourishing. Together we'll explore sexuality and spirituality by God's design, healing our relationship with pleasure, our bodies, and our identity as image-bearers. Let's take a deep breath and step into God's invitation to live fully alive—mind, body, and spirit.
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