304. Essential Texting Do's & Don'ts For Early Dating (throwback)

Texting can create SO much unnecessary anxiety in early dating. You’re wondering if you’re texting too much, if you should text first, why they suddenly seem less responsive, or whether someone who’s great in person but terrible over text is actually worth pursuing.In this episode, I’m breaking down what texting should actually look like before, after and between dates so you can stop analyzing every message and focus more on the connection happening in real life.This episode originally aired in December 2023.You’ll learn:Why texting too much before a first date can create false intimacyWhy you don’t need to wait for someone else to text first after a good dateThe texting mistake that can turn a promising connection into a pen-pal situationWhat realistic communication between dates can look likeWhat to do when you notice someone’s texting suddenly slow down or changeHow to handle dating someone who texts much less than you’d preferWhy double texting isn’t the dating crime people make it out to beWhat to do when texting turns sexual earlier than you’re comfortable withPlus, I answer a new Dating Dilemma from a listener who's worried she accidentally gave her date the impression that she only wants something physical.MENTIONEDSpeaking in Thumbs by Mimi WinsbergFree Texting Templates!MORE FROM DATING INTENTIONALLYDate Tracker: Start your 7-day free trial! (iOS link)Take the quiz: What's holding you back in dating?Say hi on InstagramBook a 1:1 with meSubmit a dating dilemmaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.