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Think you've heard it all about dating and relationships? Maybe not. Welcome to "Dateless in Delray," the podcast where we dive deep into love, lust, and everything under the sun. Each week, real men and women spill their unfiltered dating stories, from the spark of chemistry to splitting the bill awkwardness, the search for a nurse or a purse, ghosting in those cringe -worthy 3 a .m. texts. We'll explore attachment styles, navigating the dating apps, and the steamy side of sex and intimacy. And when things get rough, we'll bring in the experts to throw us a lifeline. I'm your host, Susan Heller Shoer. After 37 years of marriage, I washed up on the shores of single life here in Delray Beach. I've been a TV news journalist, marketer, video producer, and now, like half of South Florida, I'm a pickleball playing real estate agent. So whether you're dipping your toes into the dating pool, already making a splash, or just curious about how the other half stays afloat, join me each week. On
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- 3 days ago1h 8m
Ep. 89 - Stop Looking for the One. Start Becoming Your Own Matchmaker with Margot Finley
Tired of swiping, waiting, and wondering why finding love feels like a full-time job? What if the best matchmaker for you is…YOU?On this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Heller Shoer welcomes matchmaker Margot Finley for a fresh take on modern dating. From expanding your social circle to creating real-life opportunities for connection, Margot shares practical strategies for taking charge of your love life instead of leaving it to algorithms and chance.Discover how to date with intention, recognize promising connections, and become your own best advocate in the search for a meaningful relationship.Whether you're newly single, dating after 50, or simply ready to try something different, this conversation might just change how you approach finding love.Because the right match doesn't always happen by chance. Sometimes, you have to make it happen. For more information,visit finelyintroductions.comFollow Dateless in Delray for more candid conversations about dating, relationships, and finding love at every age.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- 3 weeks ago53 min
Ep. 87 - Why Wrong Feels So Right: How Attraction Can Lead to Bad Choices with Dr. Lynn Tress
The spark is undeniable. The red flags are obvious. And somehow, you still want another date.Susan welcomes psychologist and quantum coach Dr. Lynn Tress to explore why we’re drawn to people who can’t give us what we need—and how to break the cycle. From childhood patterns and emotionally unavailable partners to the difference between intuition and anxiety, they unpack why familiar doesn’t always mean healthy.Plus, a candid “Psychology or Woo-Woo?” conversation about manifestation, soulmates, and quantum coaching. Learn to recognize chemistry without confusing it with compatibility—and make room for love that feels exciting and emotionally safe.Learn more: drlynntress.com Follow Dateless in Delray, share this episode, and message Susan with your thoughtsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- Oct 13, 202654 min
Ep. 86 - The New Rules: Evan Marc Katz Makes the Case for Love in an Age of Cynicism
One of dating’s most influential voices joins Dateless in Delray. With millions of readers and podcast downloads, renowned dating coach and Love U founder Evan Marc Katz brings candid advice and fresh hope to modern love. Susan and Evan challenge today’s dating rules, unpack chemistry versus compatibility, and explore why finding lasting love may mean rethinking your “type”—without lowering your standards.For anyone tired of dating but still craving connection, this conversation is a reason to keep your heart open. Learn more at EvanMarcKatz.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- Sep 29, 202641 min
Ep. 85 - You Thought It Went Well: What Your Date Really Said with Joy Wayne
Two people can share the same first date—and leave with completely different impressions. Susan sits down with Joy Wayne, founder of Palm Beach Introduction, to reveal what happens after the date, when each person privately tells the matchmaker what they really thought. Joy shares what men and women notice, the behaviors that quietly undermine a promising connection, what “no chemistry” may actually mean and when attraction deserves more time. They also explore how confidence can be mistaken for arrogance, independence for disinterest and nervousness for a lack of personality. It’s an honest, revealing look at the dating feedback most of us never hear—and what it can teach us about how we show up, connect and give love a genuine chance. Learn more about Joy at PalmBeachIntroduction.com.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- Sep 22, 202637 min
Ep. 84 - Are Relationships for Suckers? The Truth About Making Love Last with Belle Gayer
Is lasting love something we find—or a skill we learn? Susan sits down with Belle Gayer, author of "Are Relationships for Suckers?", to explore the lessons she has learned from more than 55 years of marriage and thousands of relationship questions.They discuss chemistry versus compatibility, handling recurring conflict, maintaining intimacy, expressing gratitude and knowing the difference between healthy commitment and losing yourself. Belle also shares practical wisdom for divorced and later-in-life daters who still believe love is worth the effort.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- Sep 15, 202646 min
Ep. 83 - Microwave Love: Why We Rush Romance and Starve Connection—with Rose Lambert
Would you put a beautiful steak in the microwave? Then why do we do it to love?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer welcomes back elite Palm Beach matchmaker, entrepreneur, and mystic Rose Lambert, founder of Rose Match Inc., a nonprofit addressing loneliness through education and community. Rose explains why instant chemistry is lust rather than love, why she asks singles to give someone at least three dates, and how endless options have taught us to discard people instead of building with them.They also discuss what men actually need from a partnership, the cost of postponing love until the career is built, why financial security and a full social calendar don't cure loneliness, and how raising your own energy changes who you attract.Whether you're swiping, dating, or rebuilding after divorce, this conversation makes the case that love is grown, not found. Learn more about Rose at roselambertmatchmaker.com, or join her free masterclasses and community at rosematch.org.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- Sep 8, 20261h 0m
Ep. 82 - Is My Ex Really a Narcissist? Dating, Personality Disorders & Mental Health with Frederic Bien
“He’s a narcissist.” “She’s borderline.” “My ex is toxic.” Mental health terminology has become part of modern dating—but are we actually recognizing disorders, or simply labeling people who hurt or disappoint us?Susan Shoer talks with Frederic Bien, President of the Personality Disorders Awareness Network (PDAN), about the difference between difficult personality traits and diagnosable personality disorders, how emotional dysregulation and attachment patterns can affect relationships, and why understanding someone’s behavior doesn’t mean excusing unhealthy or hurtful treatment.They also explore boundaries, relationship instability, fear of abandonment, the tendency to diagnose our dates, and whether people with personality disorders can have healthy, loving relationships. Learn more and find resources at pdan.org.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- Sep 1, 202645 min
Ep. 81 - Chemistry Test: Is It Love, Lust, or Your Nervous System with Pavini Moray, PhD
That irresistible spark may feel like love—but sometimes it’s your nervous system recognizing something familiar.Susan Shoer talks with Pavini Moray, PhD, somatic coach and Relational Life Therapy practitioner, about the body’s role in attraction, desire, attachment and relationship patterns. They explore why intense chemistry can sometimes be confused with compatibility, how past experiences can shape who we’re drawn to, and what it means to feel genuinely safe and connected with another person.Pavini also shares how somatic awareness can help us recognize old patterns, make more conscious relationship choices, and understand the difference between excitement, anxiety, lust and lasting intimacy.Learn more about Pavini at pavinimoray.com.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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About Dateless in Delray
Think you've heard it all about dating and relationships? Maybe not. Welcome to "Dateless in Delray," the podcast where we dive deep into love, lust, and everything under the sun. Each week, real men and women spill their unfiltered dating stories, from the spark of chemistry to splitting the bill awkwardness, the search for a nurse or a purse, ghosting in those cringe -worthy 3 a .m. texts. We'll explore attachment styles, navigating the dating apps, and the steamy side of sex and intimacy. And when things get rough, we'll bring in the experts to throw us a lifeline. I'm your host, Susan Heller Shoer. After 37 years of marriage, I washed up on the shores of single life here in Delray Beach. I've been a TV news journalist, marketer, video producer, and now, like half of South Florida, I'm a pickleball playing real estate agent. So whether you're dipping your toes into the dating pool, already making a splash, or just curious about how the other half stays afloat, join me each week. On
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