Class with Kate

What Causes Abuse?

November 8, 2026·16 min
Episode Description from the Publisher

The internet might lead you to believe your partner is just a "narcissist" or have an "avoidant attachment style" who needs your help, but what you're experiencing is ABUSE. The problem is not why your partner is abusive, the problem is that they have all the POWER to abuse. In this video, I explain what the core of the issue really is, and why setting real-world consequences for your partner is the only way anything will ever change.  Get my app! https://studio.com/kate-gray/relate    Find more @CodependencyKate on Instagram, YouTube, and TikTok    www.codependencykate.com

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