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by David Tian
Are you a high achiever who's worked hard, found success, but still feels like something's missing? Do you wonder what the point of it all is, and long for deeper meaning or love in your life? Welcome to "Beyond Success," the podcast for high achievers seeking fulfillment, happiness, and true purpose. I'm David Tian, Ph.D., Leadership Coach, Certified IFS Therapy Practitioner (Level 3), and a former university professor. I'm also a proud father and husband. I bring two decades of experience, expertise, and a passion for helping others to each episode, delivering transformational insights and breakthroughs. Join us each week for deep explorations that will challenge your perspective, inspire personal growth, and guide you toward a more fulfilling life. Whether you're striving for personal or professional excellence, "Beyond Success" offers the tools, methods, and strategies to help you find your way.
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- 3 days ago33 min
#106: What Would You Pay to Get Five Years Back?
Failure is easy to notice. You build the wrong company, make a bad investment, or choose the wrong direction, and eventually the result tells you something went wrong. Success can actually be harder. Let's say the company grows, the numbers improve, the sacrifices keep paying off. Meanwhile, you may be giving up time with your spouse, your children, your health, or years of your life that you can never get back. That's the problem. Money can often be replaced. Time can't. You can earn back a million dollars. You can't get your child's sixth year back. You can't become single today and have a twenty-year marriage next year. In this episode, you'll learn four questions that help you see the price of a decision before time makes it obvious. The goal is not to stop sacrificing. It is to know what you are really spending, what you are spending it on, and whether the trade is worth it. Listen now. Show Highlights Include: Why do you make personal decisions (that often matter more to you than any financial return) without much thought or scrutiny? How putting a dollar amount on various personal decisions gives you clarity (even if it feels weird and unnatural at first) 4 questions to ask yourself before making a personal sacrifice to help prevent a decision you'll regret 10, 20, or even 50 years later How the natural passing of time inflates the cost of decisions you make today (and why understanding this is crucial for minimizing your regrets) The #1 blind spot achievers have that traps you into overvaluing business decisions and undervaluing personal ones Why considering your potential losses is like a cheat code to making correct decisions This gloomy-sounding exercise (originally created over 2,000 years ago by the Stoics) allows you to "time travel" and make decisions today with the perspective of the future For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Feeling like success in one area of life has come at the expense of another? Maybe you've crushed it in your career, but your relationships feel strained. Or you've built the life you thought you wanted, yet there's still something important missing. I've put together a free 3-minute assessment to help you see what's really holding you back. Answer a few simple questions, and you'll get instant access to a personalized masterclass that speaks directly to where you are right now. It's fast. It's practical. And it could change the way you approach leadership, love, and fulfillment. Take the first step here → https://dtphd.com/quiz
- 1 weeks ago36 min
#105: How to Live So Death Doesn't Feel Too Soon
There's a difference between wanting more time to live your life and needing more time to live your life. You can want another twenty years because you love being alive. Or you can need them because you still haven't built the relationship, started the family, or spent enough time with the friends you kept meaning to see. The reasons for postponing those things may have been sensible. But the same reasons can keep you postponing them for another decade or more. You'd think the people who love life most would be the most terrified of death. In fact, the opposite is true: the more of your life you've left unlived, the more terrifying death becomes. You'll hear why a full life isn't a completed bucket list and why cosmic insignificance can bring relief. We also explore the experience of loving someone without asking that person to make you complete. The aim is to stop treating life as preparation and start appreciating what you get to experience while you're still alive. You can still want more years. But if you keep postponing the life you actually care about, no number of extra years will ever feel like enough. Listen now. Show Highlights Include: The strange way "Death Anxiety" creeps up on you when you're young and distorts the rest of your life afterwards (and how to notice when you're acting on its behalf instead of your own) Why mortgaging your present in exchange for some future return seems logical and even astute (even as it dismantles the one and only life you get to live) The cold, hard truth about why some of the most successful people are the ones with the greatest degree of "Death Anxiety" What every achiever needs to hear from the great philosopher Albert Camus (who was the second youngest person to win the Nobel Prize) before you spend your whole life building a life you never get to live Try this simple thought experiment the next time you're anxious, overwhelmed, or feeling the pangs of regret How the simple act of loving another person may be all you ever need to turn a dull and lackluster life into one worth living A psychologist's secret for not only reducing your "Death Anxiety" to zero, but actually increasing your peace with death How a scary cancer diagnosis "shocked" a private client into realizing how much "un-living" he was doing (and how to duplicate his results without needing a scary diagnosis in order to make significant changes) For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Feeling like success in one area of life has come at the expense of another? Maybe you've crushed it in your career, but your relationships feel strained. Or you've built the life you thought you wanted, yet there's still something important missing. I've put together a free 3-minute assessment to help you see what's really holding you back. Answer a few simple questions, and you'll get instant access to a personalized masterclass that speaks directly to where you are right now. It's fast. It's practical. And it could change the way you approach leadership, love, and fulfillment. Take the first step here → https://dtphd.com/quiz
- 2 weeks ago38 min
#104: Would Your Life Matter If No One Remembered You?
What if your life disappeared so completely that no one remembered you? No family stories. No company. No reputation. No influence. No trace that you were ever here. Would that make your life meaningless? There's an award-winning episode of Star Trek that gets at this question better than most philosophy books. It also exposes a bargain many of us make without noticing it: we treat the present as a kind of downpayment on future permanence. Live longer. Build something that lasts. Leave a legacy. Make sure some part of you continues. All of those things can be good. But none of them is what makes a life worth living in the first place. In this episode, David Tian brings together Star Trek, Irvin Yalom, Thomas Nagel, Samuel Scheffler, and one uncomfortable fact: you are going to die. That fact does not make your life worthless. In fact, it can do the opposite. Once you stop demanding that life last forever before it can count, the people, experiences, and ordinary days you already have become easier to appreciate and value. You can want more life without needing to live forever. And mortality can open the door to more gratitude in the present. Listen to the episode now. Show Highlights Include: How you've busy at trying to "solve death" without realizing it (and how this slowly steals the joy and fulfillment from your existence) What an episode of Star Trek (which won them a Hugo Award, the first time a television show has won such an award in 30 years) can teach you about existential crises, death, and getting the most out of the life you have Why the "Million Year Test" can lay your legacy worries to rest once and for all How to make your life matter today instead of tomorrow (and the insidious trap that the future holds over achievers) A mindset shift that instantly raises your level of gratitude, enjoyment, and even eliminates your fear of death For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Feeling like success in one area of life has come at the expense of another? Maybe you've crushed it in your career, but your relationships feel strained. Or you've built the life you thought you wanted, yet there's still something important missing. I've put together a free 3-minute assessment to help you see what's really holding you back. Answer a few simple questions, and you'll get instant access to a personalized masterclass that speaks directly to where you are right now. It's fast. It's practical. And it could change the way you approach leadership, love, and fulfillment. Take the first step here → https://dtphd.com/quiz
- 3 weeks ago38 min
#103: What If Success Brings You the Wrong Life?
A life can look respectable, successful, even enviable, and still be badly chosen. The frightening part is that this usually doesn't happen because of one reckless decision. It happens through years of reasonable choices. Another demanding stage at the company. Another opportunity worth taking. Another reason to wait before making room for a serious relationship, children, old friends, or aging parents. Each decision makes sense on its own. Then one day, those decisions have added up to a life. In Tolstoy's The Death of Ivan Ilyich, a capable and respected man discovers too late that the very success that kept rewarding him also helped him avoid asking what his life was actually becoming. This episode looks at why legacy can mislead us, why success can reinforce choices that deserve more scrutiny, and how to use the deathbed test before the answer is no longer useful. If you're ambitious, still building, and still assuming there will be time for the rest of life later, listen now. Show Highlights Include: The devastating story of Ivan Ilyich's short-lived legacy (and how his story proves that building a legacy is not evidence of a well-lived life) How to take the classic "Deathbed Test" and push it several layers deeper to uncover how to live your life well for yourself Why external approval will subtly consume you on your deathbed with regrets you can never take back How commercial success distorts your ability to gauge whether you're living the best life for you and your family The single most destructive avoidant strategy (it's so dangerous because it rewards you with material success…but at a brutal cost you'll only realize after it's too late) How to prevent your legacy ambitions from becoming one more achievement project that only exists to distract you The case for intentionally engaging in activities that cannot scale (before they become another deathbed regret) Leo Tolstoy's most important lesson about how public ascent and private diminishment happen simultaneously (and the difficult, but doable trick to avoid this fate in your own life) For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Feeling like success in one area of life has come at the expense of another? Maybe you've crushed it in your career, but your relationships feel strained. Or you've built the life you thought you wanted, yet there's still something important missing. I've put together a free 3-minute assessment to help you see what's really holding you back. Answer a few simple questions, and you'll get instant access to a personalized masterclass that speaks directly to where you are right now. It's fast. It's practical. And it could change the way you approach leadership, love, and fulfillment. Take the first step here → https://dtphd.com/quiz
- Aug 21, 202627 min
#102: What Success Can't Tell You About Life
Success can reward a bad trade for years before the costs become obvious. The decisions usually look reasonable at the time. One more demanding year. One more important opportunity. One more stretch of travel. Marriage can wait. The children will understand. Friends will still be there. And professionally, it may keep paying off. But that's what makes the mistake so hard to catch. In this episode, we look at James Carse, Zhuangzi, Philip Ivanhoe, and Alan Watts to understand what happens when the logic of goals, scoreboards, and future results spreads into the rest of life. You'll see why caring more about a result can sometimes make you worse at getting it, why success can't tell you whether every sacrifice was worth making, and how to pursue ambitious goals without treating the present merely as the price of some future life. The point isn't to want less. The point is to stop needing success to prove more than it can. Listen to What Success Can't Tell You About Life. Show Highlights Include: 4 domains of life which cannot be tracked, measured, or optimized (and why any attempt at doing so will only sever the connective tissue) Why the most successful professionals struggle heavily with relationships, family life, and the overall enjoyment of life Who uses a 10-year span of life better: A founder who exited for $10 million or one who exited for $100 million? The insidious "Second Task" trap that makes you buckle under internal pressure (when you fall into this trap, your actual skill level declines because of your internal environment) How to delay gratification without treating the present as disposable (and why this skill is fundamental for living a good and fulfilling life) The "Concert Pianist's Secret" for becoming masterful at your practice without sacrificing the present moment for some vague, future-oriented goal 4 difficult-to-answer questions that will show you how closely achievement is tied to your identity Why continued success is often more dangerous to your life's fulfillment than humiliating failure For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Feeling like success in one area of life has come at the expense of another? Maybe you've crushed it in your career, but your relationships feel strained. Or you've built the life you thought you wanted, yet there's still something important missing. I've put together a free 3-minute assessment to help you see what's really holding you back. Answer a few simple questions, and you'll get instant access to a personalized masterclass that speaks directly to where you are right now. It's fast. It's practical. And it could change the way you approach leadership, love, and fulfillment. Take the first step here → https://dtphd.com/quiz
- Aug 14, 202632 min
#101: The Brutal Cost of Keeping Your Options Open
You've spent years getting better at managing your time. But what if time management has been helping you avoid the harder problem? Productivity works beautifully when the goal is getting more done. But some of the most important things in life can't be accelerated. If you're single today, you cannot have a twenty-year marriage next year. To have a twenty-year marriage, you need to marry and then spend twenty years growing your marriage. The same is true of an old friendship. You can't manufacture decades of shared history later, no matter how much money, freedom, or efficiency you eventually have. Some things become valuable partly because of the years you've put into them. That's why postponement costs more than the time you postpone. Every year you wait is also a year in which the marriage, friendship, family, or life you say you want isn't becoming what only time can make it. This episode explores themes from Oliver Burkeman's Four Thousand Weeks and a possibility most productivity systems never ask you to consider: maybe you don't have a time-management problem. Maybe you have a decision problem. And if that's true, getting more efficient won't solve it. You have to decide what truly deserves the years before those years are gone. Listen now. Show Highlights Include: The dark side of optimizing your life (and why it took you so long to realize that the optimization was the problem, not the solution The "4000 Weeks" secret that helps you build a meaningful life and minimize your deathbed regrets Why getting better at answering emails doesn't inherently make you more productive (and how hustle culture distracts you from meaningful productivity) How your obsession with productivity is secretly about this bigger, deeper, harder-to-solve problem than simply "time management" The weird and counterintuitive reason that becoming more productive will only make you more rushed and anxious about time disappearing 2 questions with concrete answers that will instantly tell you whether another productivity hack will help or stifle your fulfillment Why "Existential Overwhelm" is the singlest biggest obstacle achievers will face in their life (and the tragic reason most achievers only realize this on their deathbed) How keeping your options open subtly, yet pervasively tear every shred of enjoyment, fulfillment, and happiness from your life, piece by painful piece For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Feeling like success in one area of life has come at the expense of another? Maybe you've crushed it in your career, but your relationships feel strained. Or you've built the life you thought you wanted, yet there's still something important missing. I've put together a free 3-minute assessment to help you see what's really holding you back. Answer a few simple questions, and you'll get instant access to a personalized masterclass that speaks directly to where you are right now. It's fast. It's practical. And it could change the way you approach leadership, love, and fulfillment. Take the first step here → https://dtphd.com/quiz
- Aug 7, 202630 min
#100: How Success Costs You the Good Life
Most achievers believe that once they become successful professionally, then personal success will follow: the loving partner, the loyal friends, the children who still want to connect with them at fifty. But it works the other way. Professional success can often cost most people their personal lives, and it can do the damage while they're doing everything else right. Nobody wakes up and decides to postpone a family or let a twenty-year friendship go. It happens in half-hour chunks, over ordinary weeks, and each of those choices makes sense at the time you make it. This episode explains why, and why it comes out of the same instincts that built your career. The people it costs most are the ones who care most. Clayton Christensen taught at Harvard Business School for decades, then kept going back to his class reunions and watching people who'd graduated with every door open turn up divorced and not speaking to their kids. Not one of them had planned it. You're likely early enough to fix it. This episode covers how. Show Highlights Include: Why do so many people get duped into only caring about something that they'll regret on their deathbed? 3 key things you'll never be able to track or put a number to that reveal how good your life actually was or wasn't The sad truth about why so many Harvard graduates end up miserably divorced with no relationship with their children 7 words that can prevent you from dying alone How success tricks you into a lifetime of short-term decisions that literally starves your personal life The "2nd thing" secret that every achiever needs if they want to succeed in their personal and professional lives How to chuck yourself off of the metrics train before it enslaves every facet of your existence The insidious "one reasonable exception at a time" trap that rips your fulfillment of life slowly and subtly until you realize everything you built was for nobody For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Feeling like success in one area of life has come at the expense of another? Maybe you've crushed it in your career, but your relationships feel strained. Or you've built the life you thought you wanted, yet there's still something important missing. I've put together a free 3-minute assessment to help you see what's really holding you back. Answer a few simple questions, and you'll get instant access to a personalized masterclass that speaks directly to where you are right now. It's fast. It's practical. And it could change the way you approach leadership, love, and fulfillment. Take the first step here → https://dtphd.com/quiz
- Jul 31, 202630 min
#99: Marriage Isn't the Risk. The Wrong Partner Is.
You've watched a friend go through it. The house, the filing, the number the lawyer gave him. He built that business staying up late for years, and now he's watching half of it get divided by a stranger in a courtroom. You went home and did the math on your own situation that same night. Two years in with a partner who seems good, but still no proposal. You tell people it's timing. But you know it isn't just timing. This episode is for the person who sat down with the numbers, the way he sits down with every serious decision, and concluded the downside can't be insured against. The caution is intelligent. The costs are real. Nobody should tell you the fear is silly. But the fear is pointed at the wrong object. The research shows what he should be afraid of instead. By the end of this episode, the question stops being whether to marry, which never had a good answer. It becomes a harder question about a particular person, and that one you can answer this week. Start the episode here. Show Highlights Include: Why 40 year old men think they're afraid of marriage when they're really afraid of this… The cold, hard facts about what divorce costs you (and the reason to marry anyway) How the "argument" against marriage, even as a man with real assets to lose, falls apart in three steps The weirdest way to increase your lifespan by making one decision (backed by a Harvard research study that's also the longest-running study on human happiness) Why most men miscalculate the "Marriage Variable" and how it dooms them to a life of isolation and emptiness How Aristotle's "3 Types of Human Connection" method can help you identify, long before you get on one knee, whether you should marry your partner or keep searching The surefire way to prevent the inevitable heartbreak that follows when you're served the divorce papers and only then realize how your spouse contributed to your life 5 rules that tell you exactly the type of woman you should not marry For more about David Tian, go here: https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ Feeling like success in one area of life has come at the expense of another? Maybe you've crushed it in your career, but your relationships feel strained. Or you've built the life you thought you wanted, yet there's still something important missing. I've put together a free 3-minute assessment to help you see what's really holding you back. Answer a few simple questions, and you'll get instant access to a personalized masterclass that speaks directly to where you are right now. It's fast. It's practical. And it could change the way you approach leadership, love, and fulfillment. Take the first step here → https://dtphd.com/quiz
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About Beyond Success
Are you a high achiever who's worked hard, found success, but still feels like something's missing? Do you wonder what the point of it all is, and long for deeper meaning or love in your life? Welcome to "Beyond Success," the podcast for high achievers seeking fulfillment, happiness, and true purpose. I'm David Tian, Ph.D., Leadership Coach, Certified IFS Therapy Practitioner (Level 3), and a former university professor. I'm also a proud father and husband. I bring two decades of experience, expertise, and a passion for helping others to each episode, delivering transformational insights and breakthroughs. Join us each week for deep explorations that will challenge your perspective, inspire personal growth, and guide you toward a more fulfilling life. Whether you're striving for personal or professional excellence, "Beyond Success" offers the tools, methods, and strategies to help you find your way.
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