Kink 101: Fetish vs. Kink, Power Exchange & Hot Wifing with The Kink Consultant

Kink 101: Fetish vs. Kink, Power Exchange & Hot Wifing with The Kink Consultant We're stepping outside our usual non-monogamy lane and into the wide, wild world of kink with special guest Amanda Dames, aka The Kink Consultant. Amanda is a certified somatic sex & relationship coach and sexologist (and former NYC dominatrix!) who breaks down the real difference between a "kink" and a "fetish," why labels actually help you find yourself, and how power exchange, hot wifing, pre-claiming, and reclaiming sex all fit on the same spectrum. We also get into the light-bulb communication hack that took Adam's breath away, healthy boundaries around aftercare, and why justice might be Pris's real kink. In This Episode: Kink vs. fetish: what's actually the difference Amanda's journey from curious kid to NYC pro-domme to kink coach Foot fetishes, power exchange, and why "normal" kink is a spectrum The $20 light bulb trick for signaling dominant energy Hot wifing vs. hot husbanding, pre-claiming and reclaiming sex Compartmentalizing fantasy without cheating Aftercare, boundaries, and honest communication in ENM relationships Find Amanda Dames: Website: amandadames.com (grab her free guide, "Speaking Your Desires With Confidence") Podcast: The Kink Consultant Podcast Instagram: @the_kinkconsultant Facebook: The Kink Consultant TikTok: @the_kinkconsultant YouTube: @thekinkconsultant Email: info@thekinkconsultant.com Meet Amanda in Jamaica: swingcation.com - use code TKC50 Sponsors: ProDX Health - At-home STI & hormone testing, no waiting rooms, no awkward conversations. Use code BEYOMONO at prodxhealth.com for 15% off year-round. SDC - Use code 38236 for the ultimate lifestyle community. 3Fun - Use code TK11932 for the app made for couples and singles exploring together. FirmTech - Use code BEYOMONO for performance gear built for the lifestyle. More From Beyond Monogamy: Website: beyond-monogamy.com - full episode library, listener confessionals, and our brand-new live show launching soon Streaming Radio: Catch us live every Thursday at 2:00 PM & 7:00 PM Central on Full Swap Radio Beyond Monogamy Live at Club Eden San Antonio - join us in person! Krazy Winter Nights KC (Feb 19-21, 2027) - use code BEYOMONO at krazykasbh.com Enjoyed the show? Follow, rate, and leave us a review - it genuinely helps! Share this episode with a kink-curious friend.