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by Adam Alvarez; Pris Alvarez
Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy.From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place.Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy.🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday.🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com
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Seattle just made history — and Adam & Pris are unpacking it. This past week, the Seattle City Council voted unanimously to extend anti-discrimination protections to people in polyamorous relationships, adding polyamory, pansexuality, and asexuality to the city's legal definition of sexual orientation. So on this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris dig into what this means for the whole ethical non-monogamy (ENM) umbrella — polyamory, swinging, kink, and everything in between. In this episode: The Seattle City Council's new law protecting polyamorous people from discrimination Is swinging covered under "consensual non-monogamy" too? Adam and Pris debate it Orientation vs. choice: are you born non-monogamous, or is it a decision? Real data — a 2025 survey found 61% of non-monogamous people report facing prejudice or discrimination Why so many in the swinger lifestyle and polyamorous communities stay closeted at work A candid, no-filter conversation between Adam and Pris about their own relationship dynamic Whether you're poly, swinging, or somewhere in the beautiful gray area of ethical non-monogamy, this one's for you. Catch us live every Thursday at 7PM Central for our FREE livestream, plus new episodes, blogs, and events at beyond-monogamy.com. You can also catch us on FullSwapRadio every Thursday at 2PM and 7PM Central. Upcoming events: Swinger 101 Workshop — Austin, TX at Forbidden Fruit, November 15th Krazy Winter Nights — Kansas City, February 19th–21st. Use code BEYOMONO at krazykasbh.com This episode is brought to you by: The Pleasure Chest — sex toys, lingerie, and kink gear with an education-first approach. Locations in NY, Chicago, and LA, or shop online at thepleasurechest.com. 3Fun — meet like-minded people in the lifestyle. Use code TK11932. SDC — Austin-area swingers and ENM couples, use discount code 38236. Got a question or confession? Send it through our 100% anonymous confessional at beyond-monogamy.com. Like, subscribe, and leave us a review — it helps more than you know!
Ever had to "behave" in a room full of vanilla people? In this QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam & Pris get real about the very specific chaos of being deep in the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy... and then suddenly finding yourselves surrounded by vanilla friends who have no idea what you get up to. They break down the wandering-hand incidents, the flirting instincts they had to swallow, the "swingers in the wild" story that started a real friendship, and why judgment from vanilla folks is usually a mirror, not a mic drop. Plus: objectification in the ENM community, who's really "calling the shots" in a swinger relationship, and why porn's objectification argument doesn't hold up the way people think. Behaving (or not) in vanilla settings as an experienced swinger couple The wandering-hand story that got Adam benched to "hands in lap" Spotting real-life swingers in a vanilla bar Objectification of women in the non-monogamy community — and the 50/50 problem Who calls the shots more: men or women in open relationships? Catch us live: Head to beyond-monogamy.com for every episode, our blog, and our FREE livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central. You can also catch us on FullSwapRadio. Don't forget to check the Events tab at beyond-monogamy.com for every upcoming chance to meet Adam & Pris in person. This episode is brought to you by Sliquid — made in the US with clean ingredients, in water-based, silicone, and organic formulas. The water-based line is toy-safe and built to last through however long the night goes. Get 15% off here: https://sliquid.com/beyondmonogamy?ref=145 Enjoyed the show? Like, subscribe, share it with someone in your community, and leave us a 5-star review — it genuinely helps more people find us.
It's a mailbag episode! Adam & Pris skip the guest and dig straight into the inbox for two listener questions that could not be more different — one heavy, one fun, and both real talk about ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and the swinger lifestyle. A 20+ year married couple, 3-5 years into the lifestyle, hits a wall: he's thriving in non-monogamy, she's over it. Adam & Pris break down jealousy, trust, communication, and how to figure out what's actually fair for both partners. A newbie couple at their third lifestyle pool party watches his wife get swarmed while he freezes up. The question: what are the signals men miss, and how should a guy actually approach a woman (or couple) at a swinger party without being "that guy"? Real talk on setting boundaries, reading the room, non-monogamy jealousy, and open relationship communication tools you can use tonight. Got your own question or confession? Drop it anonymously in the confessional at beyond-monogamy.com — no names, no pressure. While you're there, catch the free livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central, check the blog, and browse past guests. You can also catch us on FullSwapRadio every Thursday at 2PM and 7PM Central. Upcoming events: Catch us at Club Eden on September 19th with our friend Pineapple Jen. And mark your calendars for Krazy Winter Nights in Kansas City, Missouri, February 19-21 — register at krazykasbh.com and use code BEYOMONO for a discount. This episode's sponsor: SwingTap — a one-time-fee lifestyle profile platform (no subscription). Build your profile with photos and preferences, then share it instantly via a custom link, QR code, or a wearable (rings, bracelets, even NFC cards) that looks like everyday jewelry until you want it to be more. Check it out at SwingTap.fun, or use our link SwingTap.fun/share/BeyoMono to support the show.
Do you like it bald, or with a little fuzz? On this Wednesday quickie, Adam and Pris dive into one of the most-avoided topics in the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy world: pubic hair. From sugar waxing versus hard waxing, to Adam's confession about an old insecurity sparked by a "hairy or bare" poll in a lifestyle group, this episode is a funny, honest look at grooming, body image, and self-acceptance in ENM. Sugar wax vs. hard wax, and why Pris is ready to quit cold turkey The trimmer that's actually worth the Amazon order Adam's "hairy or bare" story and why body-hair shaming needs to grow up Manscaping for hairy guys: the "penis-shaped underwear" problem FUPA talk: body insecurities, self-love, and loving your partner's curves This one's a feel-good pubic ode of love: preferences are fine, but body-shaming isn't. Love your body, love yourself, and be comfortable with who you are. Catch us live: Head to beyond-monogamy.com for every past episode, companion blogs, merch, and our anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional line. Join us for our FREE livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central, and catch us on FullSwapRadio too. This episode is brought to you by 3Fun — the app for couples and singles who want to connect with like-minded people. It's easy, low-pressure, and way less awkward than figuring it out on your own. Download 3Fun here. Keywords: swinger lifestyle, ethical non-monogamy, ENM podcast, open relationship, pubic hair grooming, body positivity in non-monogamy, swinger podcast.
Kink Night at Club Eden just broke our brains — in the best way. On this Wednesday quickie, Adam & Pris recap their first-ever Kink Night at their home swinger club, where a dominatrix friend and her sub gave them a front-row education in flogging, electric wands, sounding rods, and the real meaning of consent and power exchange in the BDSM world. This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about where kink and the ethical non-monogamy / swinger lifestyle overlap — and where they don't. In this episode: Why Kink Night at Club Eden in San Antonio is nothing like the Saturday swinger crowd Meeting "Mistress Vampirella" and her sub, dressed head-to-toe in gear Adam & Pris had never seen up close Adam's Indiana-Jones-style flogging lesson (and why he couldn't bring himself to do it) The electric wand, nipple clamps, cock cages, and an intro to sounding rods (yes, really) Why humiliation play is about consent and power exchange, not cruelty Headspace, aftercare, and the biggest myths about the kink community Adam considering a future as a dom (maybe even a "dom porn star") A shout-out to their upcoming Shibari adventure: ShibART-i in Houston on November 14th Ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, and kink all live in the same neighborhood of judgment-free exploration — this episode is proof. Catch us live: Every Thursday at 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central on FullSwapRadio, plus our FREE weekly livestream at beyond-monogamy.com. Upcoming event: Join us at ShibART-i in the Houston area on November 14th — a Shibari art event we can't wait to experience (and yes, we're having the organizer on the show soon — stay tuned). This episode is brought to you by ProDX Health. At-home STI and hormone testing — no waiting rooms, no awkward conversations, just answers. Use code BEYOMONO at prodxhealth.com for 15% off year-round (even more during special events). Subscribe, share, and leave us a five-star review — and don't forget to catch us on YouTube too. Got a story, question, or confession? Drop it in our 100% anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional at beyond-monogamy.com — we just might read it on the show.
Two brothers. Two very different kinks. One podcast that almost didn't happen. This week Adam & Pris sit down with Gryff and Jason, the real-life siblings behind the Kinky Bros Podcast — one gay, one straight, both deep in the kink world for years without ever telling each other, until a shared Netflix binge of "How to Build a Sex Room" blew the whole thing open. In this episode, we get into: How two brothers accidentally discovered they were both kinky — and how it changed their relationship Rubber and latex fetish life: stealth wear, breathability (or lack of it), and Texas summers Jason's jockstrap-and-thong origin story (thanks to a mystery pack he almost didn't order) Raising sex-positive kids in a non-monogamous, blended household Houston's surprisingly thriving queer kink community, vac cubes, and CBT 101 Compersion, jealousy, and hot wife dynamics — and why swingers aren't always as open-minded as they think Pegging, prostate pleasure, and why the swinging world still side-eyes it This is a raw, funny, genuinely educational conversation about ethical non-monogamy, kink, and the family bonds that can come from finally being honest about what turns you on. Find the Kinky Bros: search "Kinky Bros Podcast" on Apple, Spotify, iHeart, and Amazon Music, follow @kinkybrospodcast on Instagram & BlueSky, @kinkybrospod on X, or visit thekinkybros.com. Upcoming event: Shibari E, a live rope art show & demo night from Bound HTX, hits Houston on Saturday, November 14th. Details to come at beyond-monogamy.com. This episode is brought to you by SDC.com — the largest online community for open-minded adults. Make a free profile and start exploring. Use code 38236 at sdc.com. Catch us every Thursday at 7PM Central for our FREE livestream at beyond-monogamy.com, and streaming live on FullSwapRadio every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM Central on fullswapradio.com.
Do swingers still get nervous? After 15 years in the swinger lifestyle, Adam & Pris get real about nervousness, anxiety, and confidence in ethical non-monogamy. Spoiler: one of them still gets butterflies before every playdate, and the other struts through the club in lingerie like she owns the place. Guess who's who. In this quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy, your favorite ENM podcast couple digs into why nerves hit so differently for men and women in open relationships — and how to actually get past them. Why Pris stopped getting nervous (and the exact moment her confidence switch flipped) Why Adam STILL gets nervous after 15 years — even with planned playdates The mind-body connection nobody warns guys about, and why "just get hard" never works People-pleasing, rejection, and learning not to care who likes you Confident vs. egotistical — where's the line? Adam's field-tested advice for nervous guys in the lifestyle: say it once, then be a friend Spicy pic etiquette in the swinger community: who gets one, who gets blocked, and why you should always ask first Body confidence, exhibitionism, and the world's least suave way to put your underwear back on Whether you're new to swinging, curious about open relationships, or a lifestyle veteran who still feels the jitters, this episode is proof that nervousness is normal — and confidence can be built. Watch us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — plus every episode and the blog. On the radio: Catch us on FullSwapRadio every Thursday at 2PM and 7PM. Upcoming events: Lots coming — check the Events tab at beyond-monogamy.com and watch the socials. This episode is sponsored by SDC — the largest online community for open-minded adults. Make a profile, explore, and find your people. Sign up at SDC.com with code 38236.
No script. No plan. Just Adam & Pris, a list of questions on a smartphone, and zero filter. This week on Beyond Monogamy, the swinger lifestyle podcast that says what everyone else is thinking, we free-flow through the questions couples in ethical non-monogamy actually ask each other — and the answers get real, fast. In this episode of your favorite ENM and open relationship podcast: Bedroom dealbreakers — what we absolutely do NOT want partners doing during play (porn-style pounding, neck sucking, and teeth all make the list) Instant turn-offs — including the "no glove, no love" conversation too many new swingers skip Oral honesty hour — why "low and slow" wins and why you should ALWAYS speak up Swinger club etiquette — couch swaps, when it's okay to touch, and why just asking never kills the mood Playing separately — the two-hour gap, the "deer in headlights" look, and what's too intimate with someone else Could a girlfriend ever happen? — WLW relationships, sexual roommates (hard no), and keeping connections organic How to actually link up with Adam & Pris — plus who should proposition who in couple-on-couple play Whether you're new to the swinger lifestyle or a full-swap veteran, this candid Q&A between real-life partners covers the consent, communication, and comedy that make non-monogamy work. Watch us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — plus all episodes, the blog, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. On the radio: Catch us on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM Central. Come hang out with us: Krazy Winter Nights in Kansas City, MO — February 2027! We're doing a LIVE show at the weekend takeover. Tickets at krazykasbh.com — use discount code BEYOMONO for a discount. This episode is sponsored by SDC — the largest online community for open-minded adults. Your people, all in one place. Sign up at SDC.com with code 38236. Like the show? Love us? Hit follow, drop a five-star review, and share it with a lifestyle friend.
Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy.From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place.Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy.🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday.🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com
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