BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko

177: Stop Being Low Maintenance. It’s Making You Easy to Ignore.

August 9, 2026·22 min
Episode Description from the Publisher

Watch Unbothered 3 Day Intensive Here You have been trying so hard to be easy. Easy going. Easy to love. No requirements. No fuss.And yet here you are.In this episode Margarita makes the full case for being high maintenance and why the women who know what they want, ask for it unapologetically, and refuse to shrink themselves are the ones who get everything.In this episode:1. High maintenance is just a person who knows themselves2. We are taught as little girls that being easy is rewarded3. Low maintenance often becomes emotional dishonesty4. How can a man meet the needs he does not know exist5. Stop confusing standards with entitlement6. The psychology of self silencing and why it kills relationships7. Your needs are not problems, they are preferences8. The fear of being high maintenance comes from a scarcity mindset9. The healthiest women are actually quite specific10. Stop trying to be easy to love because it does not existIf you have been making yourself small so people will like you more, pretending to be fine when you are not, or following him around and forgetting to have preferences of your own, this one is for you.Welcome to the high maintenance club.Being Her is your no filter space for woman empowerment, relationship advice, confidence, feminine energy, and living life completely on your own terms.Love you lots like jelly tots xxSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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