174: You Need To Risk Being Disliked

THE SELFISH RESET — Live Call with Margarita Aug 13 Join The Unbothered Woman.UNBOTHERED 3 Day MasterclassThey taught you that being mean would get you ostracised. They taught you that having boundaries made you difficult. They taught you that disappointing people made you a bad person.They were wrong.In this episode, Margarita breaks down why the fear of being called mean is keeping you stuck, small, and silently resentful and why direct, honest, boundaried women aren't mean at all.They're just no longer convenient.In this episode:1. Causing discomfort is not the same as causing harm2. Mean usually just means you're no longer convenient3. Niceness without limits becomes unpaid labour4. Nice girls use niceness to control how people see them5. Over explaining is fear dressed as communication6. Women who avoid being mean often become it anyway, through resentment7. Anger is not a flaw it's a service announcement8. Kindness without limits becomes slavery9. The difference between power and cruelty10. Freedom means you will eventually disappoint someone, choose whoseIf you've ever said yes when you meant no and then resented it, over explained yourself just to be liked, or become passive aggressive without meaning to.. this episode is for you.Being Her is your no-filter space for woman empowerment, relationship advice, confidence, feminine energy, and living life completely on your own terms.Love you lots like jelly tots xxSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.