Ep. 134 - Finding Your People in the Middle of Autism with Julianna

In this powerful and informative episode of Autism for Badass Moms, Rashidah sits down with Julianna Scott, a mom from San Jose and mother of two adult sons, one of whom is autistic.Julianna shares her journey of early diagnosis at just two years old—following prematurity, speech delays, and intense meltdowns—and what it looked like to navigate those early years. From diving deep into research to utilizing therapy and focusing on her son’s specific needs, she opens up about the reality behind advocating while still trying to understand it all.But this episode goes even deeper.Julianna reflects on the moment that changed everything—meeting her long-time friend Kelley Jensen in a gymnastics class. What started as a simple connection turned into a lifelong friendship rooted in honesty, humor, and zero judgment. Together, they built something bigger: the Refrigerator Moms Podcast and a resource-rich platform aimed at challenging outdated narratives and empowering parents to think critically.They also tackle the history and harm behind the “refrigerator mother” theory—reclaiming the narrative, unpacking guilt, and confronting misinformation that once blamed mothers for their child’s autism.This conversation is a reminder that while this journey can feel isolating, finding your people can change everything. In this episode, we discuss: 00:00 Badass Mom Welcome01:18 Finding Your People02:19 Meet Julianna Scott03:37 Small Talk Warmup04:45 Friendship with Kelly06:15 Early Signs and Diagnosis09:13 Action Mode Research11:35 Hard Years and Progress12:40 Searching for Support14:52 Autism Community Hierarchy17:02 Losing Friends and Shrinking World24:22 Keeping Friendships Healthy27:41 Friendship Expectations Plane29:25 Grace Through Friend Loss30:17 Safer Autism Spaces31:33 Refrigerator Mom Origins35:08 Reclaiming Mom Guilt37:13 Finding Real Community39:37 Podcast Format Resources44:30 Advice for New Moms46:38 What Makes You Badass49:53 Closing and Guest Call Connect with JuliannaBe sure to follow Julianna and stay connected to her work and community.Check out the Refrigerator Moms Podcast for more real, honest conversations and valuable resources for autism families.Instagram: www.instagram.com/refrigeratormomsFacebook: www.facebook.com/refrigeratormomsTikTok: refrigeratormoms  Stay Connected with Autism for Badass MomsIf this episode resonated with you, don’t forget to:Follow the podcastSubscribe on your favorite platformLeave a review to help us reach more autism moms across the globeShare this episode with a mom who needs to hear this Instagram: www.instagram.com/theabmpodcastFacebook: www.facebook.com/theabmpodcast