Ep. 139 - Two Sisters. One Child. One Autism Journey with Jessica

In this powerful episode of Autism for Badass Moms, host Rashidah speaks with Jessica Pereira from the Bronx, NY, about raising her daughter Ja’Niyah, who was diagnosed with autism at age 2.5. Jessica shares how her bond with her sister, Chasity, evolved into a deeply connected co-parenting partnership rooted in unconditional love, advocacy, and autism acceptance.Together, they have created a home where stimming is welcomed, communication in all forms is honored, and Ja’Niyah is embraced exactly as she is. This heartfelt conversation explores sisterhood, support, neurodiversity, and helping autistic children thrive without forcing them into conventional molds.In this episode, we discuss:00:00 Badass Moms Welcome00:55 Why Moms Need Support03:02 Meet Jessica Pereira04:52 Bronx Beginnings05:53 Early Signs and Referral08:27 Diagnosis Day and Next Steps10:44 Mom Guilt and Sister Steps Up14:38 Single Mom Survival Mode15:57 School Trauma and Homeschool Choice19:04 Aggression and Communication Tools21:51 Sister Co Parenting System28:05 Acceptance Stimming and Public Stares30:13 Future Fears and Big Love33:52 Routine Changes and Respite35:45 Sister as Lifeline38:28 Dating and Limited Support40:35 ADHD and Mental Health43:45 IEP and School Struggles46:38 Gratitude and Softening Up49:02 Mourning Expectations53:16 Badass Mom Reality57:08 Advice to Keep Going01:00:58 What Makes Her Badass01:03:38 Closing and Call to ActionConnect with Jessica:Instagram: www.instagram.com/crzyfantasy128Facebook: Jessica JanetteIf this episode resonated with you, don't forget to:-Follow the podcast-Subscribe on your favorite podcast platform-Leave a review to help us reach more autism moms across the globe-Share this episode with a mom who needs to hear thisInstagram: www.instagram.com/theabmpodcastFacebook: www.facebook.com/theabmpodcast