A Really Good Cry

3 Questions to Ask Yourself When You Feel Lost

April 28, 2026·18 min
Episode Description from the Publisher

Are you waiting to feel certain before you make a move? Do you know something needs to change but not what? What if feeling lost isn't a flaw, but a signal?   In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi breaks down the real psychology behind feeling lost and why it's not about lacking ambition or motivation, but about unmet needs you might not even know you have. From the Self-Determination Theory to envisioning your future selves, this episode gives you a practical, honest framework to stop spinning and start moving.   Rather than telling you to "follow your passion" or make a dramatic leap, Radhi explores how small experiments, values clarity, and the right questions can create more direction than any five-year plan ever could. Because sometimes the path forward isn't found by thinking harder, it's found by understanding yourself better.   In this episode, you'll learn: Why feeling lost is often a sign of an unmet psychological need, not a life crisis. How to identify whether you're missing autonomy, growth, or connection. A powerful exercise to envision three versions of your future self. Why values always matter more than goals. How to run low-stakes "micro-experiments" instead of making terrifying leaps. Three questions to return to whenever you feel stuck again. Clarity doesn't come from overthinking; it comes from honest self-reflection, small brave actions, and knowing what actually lights you up from the inside.   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukiaSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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