Well Beyond 40

Sex Gets Better With Age — Here's the Proof

September 21, 2026·50 min
Episode Description from the Publisher

I’m talking with intimacy expert and sexual biohacker Susan Bratton about why your sexuality doesn’t have an expiration date and how pleasure can actually become richer as you get older. We unpack what women really need for arousal, why stress and changing physiology can interfere with desire, and how giving yourself more time, better communication, and permission to explore can completely change your experience. I also love Susan’s practical strategies for creating more connection and novelty, from learning to listen to your body to building your own sex life bucket list. What you’ll learn: (08:30) Extending your sex span can actively lengthen your healthspan and improve your quality of life. (11:20) Orgasms are learned physical skills that deliver significant cardiovascular and brain health benefits. (14:17) Experiencing orgasms increases oxytocin and activates natural killer cells to support immune function. (20:23) Female erectile tissue requires twenty to thirty minutes of relaxed stimulation to achieve full engorgement. (25:19) Declining nitric oxide and thinning vaginal tissue can be targeted through supplementation and targeted therapies. (31:14) Slowing down to transition from stress into mindfulness allows your body to catch up for deeper turn-on. (38:37) Adopting a sexual soulmate pact establishes essential rules of engagement for constructive bedroom feedback. (43:18) Exploring a sex life bucket list brings novelty, variety, and excitement into long-term relationships. Full show notes (including all links mentioned): https://jjvirgin.com/bratton

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