What if the content shaping men online is helping them and hurting them at the same time?In this episode of This Triggers Me, a sociologist focused on masculinity and a psychologist specializing in therapy for men unpack the tension between growth and harm in male targeted spaces online.They explore the pull of the manosphere, why its messaging resonates with boys and men, and how it intersects with men’s mental health and men’s wellbeing. They also get personal, diving into the challenges of showing up imperfectly, people pleasing, and what it means to model more honest, grounded conversations.Key takeaways:How people pleasing and fear of imperfection can show up when talking about men’s mental healthWhat the manosphere is (and why it’s more nuanced than people think)The difference between “on ramp” content (fitness, discipline) and more rigid or harmful ideologiesHow algorithms expose boys and men to increasingly extreme content over timeWhy black and white advice and confidence are so appealing in masculinity spacesThe link between rigid “man box” norms and men’s poorer wellbeing, including higher suicide riskWhy purpose and optimism can increase even within restrictive frameworksThe need for better, healthier messaging around men’s therapy and emotional developmentA practical framework for modern masculinity: “build safety, show up, give a damn”How therapy for men can offer a grounded alternative to the noise and a space to build real emotional strengthConnect with usEmail- thistriggersmepodcast@gmail.comSocial media- https://www.instagram.com/dr.audra.horney/https://www.instagram.com/re.masculine/https://www.instagram.com/thistriggersmepod/https://www.tiktok.com/@thistriggersmepodDr Audra’s Directory of Therapists for Men: www.draudra.comPodcast post-production: Stacy Blackburn
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