Ep 257 The Things We Hide: The Walls You Built to Survive Are Limiting Your Leadership

Most leaders think they're in control of how they lead. They're not.Underneath every decision, reaction, and every room you walk into is something that's running the show. A fear that never got named. A wound that never got faced. A wall that got built so long ago you forgot it was there.In this episode, host Tyler Dickerhoof shares his new book — The Things We Hide — and reads from the opening chapters. Tyler opens with the moment that changed everything, the afternoon his three-year-old brother Joel died on their family farm, and the wall a fourteen-year-old boy built in the hours that followed. A wall that would quietly run his leadership, his relationships, and his life for the next twenty-five years.In this episode you'll learn:✅ The four walls leaders build from fear: Intensity, Insensitivity, Isolation, Inactivity✅ How to identify the core insecurity driving your leadership before it costs you the people around you✅ Why your greatest growth won't come from doing more, only from being more yourself✅ The one exercise that changes things for you: naming what you've never said out loud📖 Get The Things We Hide — available now: thethingswehidebook.com🔔 Subscribe for weekly conversations on leadership, self-awareness, and what it actually takes to lead well.