The Strong New York Podcast

Attachment Expert, Chris Davids on Why You Want Love but Can't Trust it

September 2, 2026·1h 6m
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Kenny Santucci sits down with Chris Davids (@EvolvedByChris) — a former physician turned attachment coach who dated 300+ women after his divorce and grew his following from 0 to 300K in six months by telling the truth about relationships.They break down the anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment styles running most people's dating lives, why men and women process stress and "peace" completely differently, why chasing dopamine early kills relationships, and what women actually want from a man (hint: it's not his bank account).In this episode:The 3 attachment styles that predict how someone datesWhy "honesty" in dating isn't about looks or moneyDopamine vs. oxytocin — why the honeymoon phase always endsWhy smart people still make terrible relationship decisionsWhat women actually want from a manConnect with Chris Davids Instagram: @evolvedbychrisConnect with Kenny and Strong New York: Instagram: @kennysantucciInstagram: @strongnewyorkFollow the Strong New York Podcast: Instagram: @strongnewyorkpod0:00 Intro0:58 Why Dating Is Harder Than Ever8:25 Chris’s Journey Into Relationship Coaching11:50 Attachment Styles Explained: Anxious, Avoidant and Disorganized18:58 Does Childhood Cause Avoidant Attachment?24:41 Why You Cannot Love Someone Out of Avoidance27:36 Avoidant Attachment vs. Narcissism32:59 The Best First-Date Advice37:19 How to Choose the Right Partner41:21 Dopamine, the Honeymoon Phase and Why Feelings Fade43:16 Friendship, Sacrifice and Compromise in Relationships50:00 Why Smart People Make Bad Relationship Decisions56:32 Why Relationships Should Be Run Like a Business57:59 What Women Actually Want From Men62:16 These are the Only Qualities Women Look forThis episode is sponsored by:🔥 Celsius — the energy drink that fuels every Strong New York workout. Follow @celsiusofficial on Instagram for all the new flavors.🩸 Marek Health — optimize your hormones, recovery, and performance at marekhealth.com. Use code KENNY for 10% off Diagnostics, Supplements, and Guided Optimization.🤝 Founders Club — a trusted circle of 2,500+ builders across North America who share resources, open doors, and raise the bar for entrepreneurship. Learn more at FoundersClubOfficial.com.#attachmentstyles #attachment #strongnewyork

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