Inside the Mind of a Codependent: The Hidden World of Self-Love Deficit Disorder

In this powerful video, Ross Rosenberg explores what it feels like to live inside the mind of a codependent, or someone with Self-Love Deficit Disorder (SLDD). He describes the constant inner noise—an unrelenting inner critic, chronic self-doubt, and exhausting overthinking—that keeps many stuck in anxiety and emotional depletion. Ross explains how core shame, pathological loneliness, and childhood attachment trauma shape these patterns, leading to trauma bonding, settling for “breadcrumbs” ...