The Pension Confident Podcast

E52: Is it worth getting married? With Mike Donkor, Philippa Dolan and Jasper Martens

July 27, 2026·31 min
Episode Description from the Publisher

For the first time ever, fewer than half of UK adults are married or in a civil partnership, yet the law hasn't caught up with how many of us now live together instead. So, legally and financially, is it still worth getting married? Join our host, Philippa Lamb, and our expert panel as they discuss whether marriage still pays off financially and legally, and what unmarried couples need to put in place instead: Financial Planner, Mike Donkor; Solicitor and Partner at Collyer Bristow, Philippa Dolan; and Chief Marketing Officer at PensionBee, Jasper Martens.   Episode breakdown 01:18 Why marriage rates are falling 05:44 The financial perks of marriage 09:04 When unmarried couples split 12:41 Avoiding the money conversation 16:20 How are pensions shared 19:28 Who gets the pets? 21:15 Protecting your partner with a will 24:22 Cohabitation Agreements and annual reviews 28:48 A fairer end to relationships   Further reading and listening To learn more about managing money in a couple, check out these articles and podcasts from PensionBee: Episode transcript (Blog) E14: What's the impact of your relationship status on your finances? (Podcast) E35: The cost of divorce (Podcast) How does divorce or remarrying affect your pension? (Article) Pension beneficiaries (Article) Six money conversations you need to have with your family (Blog) Why pensions deserve your attention during divorce (Blog) Writing a will (Article)   Other useful resources A fairer end to relationships: consultation (GOV.UK) Capital Gains Tax allowances (GOV.UK) Cohabitation Agreement guidance (The Law Society) Families and households in the UK (Office for National Statistics) Inheritance Tax (GOV.UK) Marriage Allowance (GOV.UK)   Catch up on the latest news, read our transcripts or watch on YouTube: The Pension Confident Podcast The Pension Confident Podcast on YouTube Follow PensionBee (@PensionBee) on TikT

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