
In this episode we’ll talk about:Why chemistry, connection, and attraction matter… but why they were never designed to be the primary filter for who you build a life with, and how using them as the primary filter often leads to relationships that struggle to hold what you're actually trying to buildThe concept of stewardship in relationships… what it means when one person is entrusted with the assignment God placed in the other, and why the right partner recognizes that assignment before they recognize anything elseWhy this principle isn't gendered… it applies equally to how a man chooses a woman and how a woman chooses a man, because both people are carrying something God placed inside them that requires stewardship from the otherThe specific signs of a partner who's built to steward the assignment… the way they treat what you're carrying, the way they protect your peace, the way they multiply what you build instead of consuming itWhat it means to choose from a place of purpose rather than a place of chemistry… and why doing this changes not just your relationship but the entire trajectory of your legacyAnd more… START HERE…→ Join The Niche Is You® — my Substack (20K+) — Weekly essays, the full workshop library, the private community + the Quarterly Challenges. → https://mattgottesman.substack.com/aboutNEW HERE…→ 6 Days to Clarity Workshop — clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play. → https://mattgottesman.com/reverse-engineer-your-life (FREE)CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ TikTok — @mattgottesman→ YouTube — @mattgottesmanRESOURCES…→ Write • Design • Build — my Content Creator Studio & OS masterclass (Included when you join my Substack) — Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & income — CLICK HERE→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Apparel — thenicheisyou.comOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Faith Isn’t Knowing the Whole Path… It’s Taking the Next Honest StepApple: https://apple.co/3MB62IuSpotify: https://bit.ly/4rZw3RN
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