The Labia Lounge

Double Standards in The Dating World & Benevolent Sexism with Dr Mardi Wilson

September 5, 2026·1h 12m
Episode Description from the Publisher

This week in The Labia Lounge I have another Bonus episode for you as part of the Find Freya A Fella campaign! I brought on my friend and expert labial legend Dr. Mardi Wilson to talk about the double standards in dating when it comes to how men and women are perceived and treated when they're actively looking for love and partnership.We chat about things like: Benevolent sexismHow our vagina calls the shots and decides against men sometimesShame around being single as a woman.Stigma around wanting a male partner while also being independent and feminist.The difficulty of discussing vulnerability while actively experiencing it.Reactions that can pressure women back into more passive dating roles.Heterosexual dating norms that typically position men as active pursuers and women as passive recipients of romantic attentionAnd so much more - it's a meaty chat!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Check out the camapign or get in touch here: https://www.freyagraf.com/find-freya-a-fellaTry out Captain Spice's sticky chai here: https://www.captainspice.com.au/Special thanks to sponsors of the campaign: Moments - https://momentswellness.com.au That's the Spot - https://thatsthespot.com.auHeaps Normal Beer - https://heapsnormal.comSmooch Soda - https://www.instagram.com/smooch.drinks/Ballard's Thornbury - https://carrot-jellyfish-7mgz.squarespace.com/Das T-shirt Automat - https://www.dastshirtautomat.com.au/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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