Help! My spouse/partner doesn't see me nor do they hear me!

Reginald McKiver discusses how relationships often feel imbalanced (money, education, family background) and how couples clash by trying to make each other the same instead of learning from differences. He argues spouses often arrive to "break" what you've been taught through observation, which he calls the strongest teacher, and asks listeners to list what they observed growing up in love, finances, health, and self-care. He says people frequently repeat generational patterns—often "marrying" their mother or father—and rehearse the same arguments in a trance-like cycle that isn't truly about the partner but about generational pain. He advises writing down repeated phrases from arguments, saying them to oneself in the mirror, taking accountability, and learning to see, hear, love, and believe in oneself to break the cycle and move forward with understanding. Visit thereggiemckiver.com to learn more.