The John Lovell Show

John Lovell’s Wife Tells Her Side of Their Marriage

September 18, 2026·53 min
Episode Description from the Publisher

Twenty years together—but their marriage wasn’t always this good.John and Rebekah Lovell open up about the power struggles, selfishness, and communication mistakes that made their early years so difficult. John admits that leading men on a battlefield didn’t prepare him to lead well as a husband. Becka reflects on control, criticism, and what she learned about respect and submission.From an argument over face wash to learning how to apologize, they share how faith, humility, mentorship, and hard work helped their marriage grow.They also discuss biblical marriage roles, feminism, putting your spouse before your children, and why a flourishing marriage takes more than finding the “right person.”What helped your marriage turn a corner? Share your experience in the comments.Warrior Poet WEBSITE - https://warriorpoetsociety.comTRAIN with us - https://warriorpoetsupplyco.com/train1/Books by John Lovell - https://www.warriorpoetsupplyco.com/pages/readGET the WarPoet app! | Original shows, training, and much more. iPhone, Android, Amazon, Apple TV etc. https://www.watchwpsn.com Watch the Rally Point Show on the Warrior Poet appFOLLOW US: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/warriorpoetsociety Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/warriorpoetsociety/ X | https://x.com/johnlovell275 Spotify | https://open.spotify.com/show/6O2q4F2tbmoddeSTo9jKNM?si=qzbO0G6xRs-rs51BZuP31QChapters:00:00 Our Marriage Wasn’t Always This Good06:19 The Struggles in Our Early Marriage15:53 Understanding Biblical Marriage Roles18:08 Why Marriage Is Losing Its Appeal29:35 Submission, Trust & Shared Decisions38:22 The Face-Wash Fight43:03 Building a Marriage That Lasts49:58 Putting Your Marriage Before Your Children(DISCLAIMER: This post may contain paid advertisements or affiliate links. What is an affiliate link? It means that if you click on one of the product links, Warrior Poet Society will receive a small commission at no extra cost to you. This helps support the channel and allows awesome future content. Thank you for the support!).

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