305. Comparison Ruining Your S*x Life & Things I Know at 37 That I Didn't at 27!

Comparison is the thief of joy… and apparently, it can also be the thief of a good sex life. This week, we're talking about how comparison can quietly creep into sex, intimacy, marriage, body image, attraction, and relationships—and why constantly measuring your sex life against everyone else's can leave you feeling like something is wrong when it might not be. Then, in honor of turning 37, I'm getting personal with the things I know at 37 that I absolutely did NOT know at 27. We're talking hindsight, instant gratification vs. playing the long game, how dramatically my 20s differed from my 30s, and what I would do differently if I could go back—with plenty of lessons that have nothing to do with men. I'm also getting into motherhood, marriage, finding an identity outside of the roles we play for other people, and my evolving relationship with God. I genuinely thought I had already "deconstructed" my faith… only to realize I had barely scratched the surface. Basically: aging, sex, identity, faith, comparison, motherhood, marriage, and the uncomfortable realization that maybe growing up isn't about finally having everything figured out. Plus, listener questions—because obviously we still need a little mess. SPONSORS: UBERLUBE My go-to luxury lubricant. Use code HOUSEWIFE for 10% off + free shipping. https://www.uberlube.com BLUECHEW Buy 2 months of BlueChew Gold and get your third month FREE with code HOUSEWIFE. https://bluechew.com POPSTAR LABS Get 20% off your purchase with code HORNYHOUSEWIFE. https://www.popstarlabs.com/hornyhousewife