The Erotic Realm

#137 Can You Keep Desire Alive? Female Desire, Sex & Long-Term Relationships with Caroline Hood

September 29, 2026·53 min
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Does desire really die in long-term relationships — or are we misunderstanding what happens to it?In this episode I'm joined by sex therapist and clinical social worker Caroline Hood to explore female desire, sex and intimacy in long-term relationships.We explore:Why sexual desire can change in long-term relationships without disappearing.Whether “low desire” can actually be a logical response to stress, caregiving, resentment and exhaustion.The biggest myths we've inherited about female desire and spontaneous desire.What responsive desire gets right — and where we've become too rigid with the concept.How couples can cultivate eroticism, intimacy and desire when life never seems to calm down.Research article: Maintaining Sexual Desire in Long-Term Relationships: A Systematic Review and Conceptual ModelThis episode is proudly sponsored by Magic Motion. Grab 10% off their toys here using code EMMA10.Interested in Kinky Speed Dating? ⁠⁠⁠Register Here.⁠⁠⁠The Erotic Realm now has it’s own merchandise! If you love the show and want to support it check it out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠psychologyofdesire.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to support the podcast, or apply to be a guest. I'd love to chat to you.Thanks for listening!Stay perverted,EmmaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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