Monday Briefing: The 3 Drivers of Motivation That Get You Unstuck

Season 2: Bonus Episode Monday Briefing 6   In this Monday Brief,  we explore how motivation really works, and why so many high performers still find themselves feeling stuck. Drawing on Self-Determination Theory (SDT), developed by psychologists Ryan and Deci, the conversation breaks down the three essential drivers of human performance: autonomy (feeling in control of your choices), competence (feeling capable and effective), and relatedness (feeling connected to others).   When these needs are met, motivation becomes internal and sustainable; when they’re not, even the most driven individuals can lose momentum, especially if they’re relying on external rewards like money, status, or recognition. The episode offers practical ways to get “unstuck” by rebuilding these three needs through small, intentional actions. Whether it’s reclaiming autonomy through values-based decisions, restoring competence with quick, achievable wins, or strengthening relatedness through connection and service, the focus is on simple nudges that create real traction. The takeaway: peak performance isn’t about pushing harder—it’s about realigning with what actually drives you, and making small moves that bring you back into sync.   Links: Self-determination theory: A quarter century of human motivation research