What does it mean to "be a man" in evangelical culture? In this episode, T and Lance unpack the suffocating gender expectations placed on boys and men in the church—where strength means silence, doubt is weakness, and spiritual leadership is always male. From purity culture to the "biblical manhood" narrative, we examine how these ideals distort identity, repress emotion, and alienate anyone who doesn’t fit the mold. It's time to ask: Who benefits from these rules—and who gets left behind?🎵 Opening music by The Demigs: Black Valley Fight ( • Video ) 🎵 Closing music by The Demigs: Monochrome Blues ( • Video ) 🌐 Resources:Adult Children of Alcoholics: https://adultchildren.org – for support, healing, and recovery Freedom From Religion Foundation: https://ffrf.orgPaulogia Podcast: / paulogiaMatt Dillahunty: / @sansdeity #Exvangelical #ReligiousTrauma #Deconstruction #ToxicMasculinity #ChristianNationalism #churchhurt
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